I can see why we needed this thread too - I'm sure there'll be all kinds of new insights.
I searched this before I posted.
If one person wants a divorce and the other doesn't, only the lawyers win. In the end there is a bitter divorce.
All it takes is to miss a couple of days coming on Free Republic; and I've missed several timely articles that are already old news to the always here posters.
No reason to be tacky about it.