Not standards...that implies a rigorous mindset..I've always felt I had a pretty good inner sense of what's appropriate...it's never failed me yet..and watchig the tube, it didn't seem the thing to do, so Ithrew it out for discussion..I didn't castigate her....BTW, after reading the other info about white..if Nancy Reagan's suit had been white, I would have approved
I would've been delighted if Nancy had worn red - that was his favorite color on her.
You probably do have a pretty good inner sense of what's appropriate...