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OPEN LETTER TO AMERICAN FEMINISTS
my angry self | 04 June 2004 | me

Posted on 06/04/2004 12:43:30 PM PDT by cyborg

Dear American Feminists,

I am a thirty year old woman living in the United States and have been studying what is known as 'the women's movement'. I've read some of your books especially those written by Gloria Steinem and other famous women's rights advocates. Reading these books I hoped to gain some insight into the movement that my fellow conservatives railed against. I sought to find out why Rush Limbaugh takes such obvious delight in calling all of you feminazis.

I disagreed with the goals of the feminists such as abortion rights, putting career ahead of family and so on. I thought it would be easy for me to go on with my life and allow you to go promoting feminist causes. After all, this is America and I don't spend my time telling other people how to behave and what to think. However, I did not realize the impact that the feminist movement had in the lives of men and women in this country till I started dating (if it can be called such).

I hope you are happy with yourselves. You've made it possible for more girls to enter spinsterhood than ever before all the while going psychotic and starving ourselves to death into an early grave besides. The biblical verse (I know you hate christianity but please excuse me) that states 'what does it profit a man if he gains the world and loses his soul' comes to mind. What does it matter if I'm rich with a great career, my own car, a healthy 'sex life' and nice clothes if I'm alone when I'm eighty rocking myself to sleep in a dirty nursing home all alone with no grandchildren? Perhaps you don't care that many men cringe at the idea of getting married because you don't care for the institution of getting married yourselves. Perhaps not having children doesn't bother you because you're too busy advocating the murder of children in the womb.

You talk about us women embracing our 'real bodies' and 'our fat womyn' BUT what do you feminists fill your magazines with? It's not 'real womyn' that is for sure. You peddle independent womanhood in the form of acting like a slut, dressing like a slut and having women portrayed as black widows. You champion little girls wearing g-strings and playing rainbow braclet gamwes while condemning girls who save themselves for marriage, or girls who are celibate and dress modestly as 'old fashioned' and 'out of touch'.

My thirtieth birthday came and went, and so far I've learned that many men don't respect women. A married man will go over land sea and tell all kinds of lies to get sex from a girl. I've also learned that trying to attract the attentions of man already burned once by a 'independent woman' is a fruitless effort and these men don't go through half the trouble single men or married men do to use a girl sexually. They do no think we women are worth it. I wonder how many girls will learn about your lies the hard way? How many girls will have a mother like mine to listen to the whining and frustration then only to say, 'see? You need to church and get right with God.' not mothers who are interested in being their best buddies and further encourage promiscuity.

Many young men don't even want to get married but instead wait for those women willing to have casual sex with them. You taught these girls that having unattached sex is the mark of a proud, independent woman like Sex in the City for instance. You trash Jessica Simpson for being a brainless idiot but we BOTH know why you really trash her and don't trash Britney Spears. Frustrated fathers raise sons and tell them never to get married. What are girls like me supposed to do? Or is my choice to want to be a wife and mother not as vaunted as having abortions or group sex on MTV? Bring up marriage and children to a single man these days, and a girl will find herself all alone on a Saturday night. So what's a girl to do? Don't bother answering feminists. American culture has had enough of your answers. Your well intentioned moral boondoggles have hurt women more than you will ever realize. Let's hope you don't spread your false gospel elsewhere.

Thank you for your time.


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To: WKB

Don't know but I plan to refine it some more and pass it around soon enough hehehe.


161 posted on 06/04/2004 3:11:21 PM PDT by cyborg
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To: cyborg
You want loud?

Just take a gander at my last post.

162 posted on 06/04/2004 3:11:28 PM PDT by The Scourge of Yazid ( "Have you no morals, man?" "No. No. I can't afford dem guv'ner.")
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To: cyborg

Maybe if she provided the bag for her head!

I kept waiting for the patrons of the pizza place to chant..
Jerry..Jerry..Jerry!~


163 posted on 06/04/2004 3:12:06 PM PDT by A CA Guy (God Bless America, God bless and keep safe our fighting men and women.)
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To: ItsonlikeDonkeyKong

hehehehe


164 posted on 06/04/2004 3:18:34 PM PDT by cyborg
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To: protest1

Sorry, no sisters. I have several attractive single cousins, but none in Europe at this time ...


165 posted on 06/04/2004 3:21:34 PM PDT by Tax-chick (The old woman who lives in the 15-passenger van.)
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To: Tax-chick
Damn!

And I was right on the verge of purchasing those two first class plane tickets to Ibiza!

Now what'll I do?

Guess I should make another trip to Flatbush Avenue.

166 posted on 06/04/2004 3:24:21 PM PDT by The Scourge of Yazid ( "Have you no morals, man?" "No. No. I can't afford dem guv'ner.")
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To: ItsonlikeDonkeyKong

I got jumped by four Mexicans in a park here in California a couple of years after I got here. They lost! There are SOME advantages in being from Brooklyn. LOL

I also had a future Democrat California Senator in my private grade Catholic school here. He pestered me for a long time in poking me with a pencil.
I got sick of it and jumped out of my seat on top of him and it took about 12 kids to get me off of him.
So I beat the tar out of this future Democrat California Senator and the nuns were not that quick to remove me from the beating either.
As a matter of fact, I think I was practically thanked and given a dispensation so I could eat meat the next
Lent on Fridays for that effort! LOL

I was a well behaved good kid, but enough was enough and the nuns knew it had to take a real effort to have me go off! LOL


167 posted on 06/04/2004 3:26:39 PM PDT by A CA Guy (God Bless America, God bless and keep safe our fighting men and women.)
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To: A CA Guy
Good to know.

Unfortunately you have someone who hails from Kings County who is now envenoming every aspect of the United States Senate.

I won't mention any names, but I think you know who I'm referring to.

168 posted on 06/04/2004 3:32:35 PM PDT by The Scourge of Yazid ( "Have you no morals, man?" "No. No. I can't afford dem guv'ner.")
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To: Tax-chick

Are any of them 30 something residing in Georgia by chance?


169 posted on 06/04/2004 3:32:55 PM PDT by gawatchman
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To: cyborg

The feminist agenda is one of destroying choice, contrary to popular thinking. It is not so much about woman's sovereignty as it is about destroying man's rights and sovereignty. And the it is not even about enhancing woman's sovereignty, but about opinion making, anti-gun rants, and other social agendas and threatening wants and needs put to the fore. It also includes brainwashing little girls into hating kids and forcing women to go on their social agenda.

Why do you think they do not protest female infanticide in China? Simply because it allows for population control. Kill the women, no more unrully mob of youth to have to raise. Steinmen and the other hate children and hate women with children.


170 posted on 06/04/2004 3:38:17 PM PDT by JudgemAll
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To: gawatchman

All are 30-something. One in California, one in New York, and one was somewhere in the cold upper-midwest, last I heard. My brother's ex just moved back to Macon, GA ... nice girl, pretty, no kids ... and I don't really blame her for dumping my brother.


171 posted on 06/04/2004 3:44:18 PM PDT by Tax-chick (The old woman who lives in the 15-passenger van.)
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To: ItsonlikeDonkeyKong

One of my cousins (the really smart one) lives in Manhattan. I think she's 31 this year. My aunt and uncle are getting really desperate for grandchildren!


172 posted on 06/04/2004 3:45:18 PM PDT by Tax-chick (The old woman who lives in the 15-passenger van.)
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To: cyborg
There are wonderful men out there wondering the same things you are. They can't find you any easier than you can find them. But they're there. I've been married more than 20 years to the same guy, so I'm sort of a confidant to my single male friends. They are just as frustrated as you are. Don't give up!

Maybe ask your long-term married females friends to help? (hint, hint)

173 posted on 06/04/2004 3:50:54 PM PDT by dagny taggert
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To: Tax-chick
Yeah, I think my parents have pretty much given up hope on some of my siblings ever giving them grandchildren.

I guess I don't feel that much pressure, being in my 20s, but I can imagine what it would be like for a woman who's peaking around that age, and is still not attached.

174 posted on 06/04/2004 3:57:18 PM PDT by The Scourge of Yazid ( "Have you no morals, man?" "No. No. I can't afford dem guv'ner.")
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To: dagny taggert

Yup. I'm sure there's someone for me. I just don't want all the men thinking that young women are either not interested, sluts, out for their money,etc.


175 posted on 06/04/2004 3:59:38 PM PDT by cyborg
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To: JudgemAll

I agree.


176 posted on 06/04/2004 4:00:45 PM PDT by cyborg
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To: Tax-chick

Thanks, I am signing off for the evening, but I may FR mail you with my details if it's ok, and you think she would not mind, or might be interested.


177 posted on 06/04/2004 4:02:30 PM PDT by gawatchman
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To: Brandi in AZ
As a 29 year old woman wondering if she'll ever get married

Ahem, a lot of us who got married BEFORE 29 are on our second husbands...........don't worry about it!

178 posted on 06/04/2004 4:04:42 PM PDT by Howlin
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To: TomServo

Hey now!


179 posted on 06/04/2004 4:07:18 PM PDT by Howlin
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To: ItsonlikeDonkeyKong

It is harder in some ways for women, because we do run out of time to have children. Not like, say, Anthony Quinn or Tony Randall, who fathered children in their 70's!


180 posted on 06/04/2004 4:08:53 PM PDT by Tax-chick (The old woman who lives in the 15-passenger van.)
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