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Desperate Afghan Women Opt for Fiery Suicides
Reuters ^ | April 23, 2004 | David Brunnstrom

Posted on 04/24/2004 7:03:04 AM PDT by prairiebreeze

HERAT, Afghanistan (Reuters) - Nineteen-year-old Zahara says the day of her wedding was one of the happiest of her life.

But the marriage quickly became a nightmare of quarrels and beatings. Just three month later, she lies in hospital, her pretty face and much of her body scarred by horrific burns, after she poured petrol over her head and lit a match.

In post-Taliban Afghanistan, despite a new constitution enshrining women's rights that the Western-backed government passed in January, this remains a depressingly familiar story.

Zahara is one of many women to attempt a fiery suicide rather than be trapped in an unhappy marriage or denied the opportunity to make something of their lives.

In the past year, the Afghan Independent Human Rights Commission has recorded at least 110 cases of self-immolation by women in just five parts of the country.

There have been no fewer than 56 cases in Herat, a Western province ruled by a hard-line Islamist accused of continuing "Taliban-like" restrictions on women.

Rights workers say the phenomenon reflects a culture of violence, discrimination and broken post-Taliban dreams. They also say the problem could be far worse than the statistics show.

Lying on a filthy hospital bed in the city of Herat, Zahara clearly found it painful to speak, but once she began, her story gushed out in a torrent of hurt.

"My body was black from beatings," she said. "I was happy to kill myself because life was unbearable."

Zahara said her husband taunted her when she said she wanted to return to her family and threatened her with a gun. Eventually he said she should kill herself if she was so unhappy.

"He thought I was joking, but I took the matches and set myself on fire," she said. "At first I was happy to get married, but things turned really bad."

Other women tending relatives nearby shook their heads and tutted in understanding as she spoke. Zahara's mother, Sharifa, sobbed quietly at the foot of the bed. Herat Hospital director Dr Arif Shaharn said some women chose suicide rather than being sold into marriages to men as old as 75. The youngest to burn herself in Herat was just 14.

"WAY TO ESCAPE"

"They think it's the only way to escape. It's a very important issue and we are investigating why there should be such a high incidence here in Herat," said Shaharn.

He said the women used whatever flammable substance was available. "Sometimes it's gasoline, other times cooking oil."

"The burns in these cases are usually 80-90 percent, which is generally fatal," he said.

The Rights Commission's Ahmad Nedar Nadery blamed Herat's high number of suicides on both domestic violence and what he said were stultifying restrictions on women's rights imposed by Governor Ismail Khan, a rival of President Hamid Karzai.

While Khan, unlike the Taliban, supports female education -- albeit strictly segregated -- women's job opportunities are sharply curtailed in Herat and all are still expected to wear cover-all burqas or Iranian-style chador veils whenever they venture outdoors.

Marjo Stroud, of the German NGO Medica Mondiale in Herat -- a city with one of the best-educated female populations in Afghanistan -- said depression rates among women were very high.

"Many young women are afraid to believe their dreams," she said. "Even if their families support them, they don't know if their job opportunities might suddenly end."

Khan has, for instance, discouraged women from joining nongovernmental organizations, saying that Afghans who allowed their wives to work with foreign men could not be real men.

Women have also been banned from working in tailors' shops because of "the potential for un-Islamic activity" and the only driving school for women has been shut down

Dr Sohillah Arab works in the women's burns section in Herat Hospital, where patients are crammed together in a bleak, grubby annex at the end of a corridor. She said Zahara had been lucky as she had suffered only 60 percent burns and had received treatment relatively quickly.

Many women die of secondary infections. The hospital has no sterile burns unit and patients are expected to recuperate on rusting beds in poorly swept wards buzzing with flies.

Dr Shaharn said a foreign NGO had promised to help fund a burns unit, but nothing had yet materialized .

Zahara is again fortunate to come from a closely knit family which plans to take her soon to Iran for treatment.

"I kept telling her she should never do anything like this and she should divorce if she was unhappy," her mother said. "But she told me they tried to kill her and that he had pulled a gun out on her several times, so she had to do it.

"I have passports for us both and we will go to Iran," she said. "My husband is happy to spend money on his daughter."


TOPICS: Extended News; Foreign Affairs; News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: afghanistan; afghanwomen; beatings; fire; intimidation; muslimwomen; southasia; suicides
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To: prairiebreeze; AntiGuv
Oprah had a show on in the last few months dealing with the murdering of wives by husbands in India who wanted to get rid of them so they could marry again for another dowry. The means is often burning her with cooking oil. That way the husband or an intimidated wife can cook up the story of accident or suicide. Women are not considered to be the treasures that they really are in that part of the world.

When I read this story, I wondered if these werent actually murders or attempted murders. The women might be too frightened to tell the truth about their attacker. Maybe there are threats against their other family members. Maybe there is some other intimidation being used against them to keep them from naming their attacker.

Just food for thought.
41 posted on 04/24/2004 8:52:05 AM PDT by TEXOKIE
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To: hellinahandcart
>Very good summary at that link

I haven't seen it,
but a freeper once said that
Chick does a comic

characterizing
all the Salem inncidents
as staged by Satan

to further erode
religion's direct role in
American life.

42 posted on 04/24/2004 9:35:20 AM PDT by theFIRMbss
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To: theFIRMbss
The woman should have dumped the Gas on her abusive husband
and torched his sorry ass....Ill bet the other husbands in the area would start buying flowers for theirs!
43 posted on 04/24/2004 9:44:36 AM PDT by LtKerst (Lt Kerst)
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To: hellinahandcart
As you obviously know, the Salem witch trials came out of years of nasty property/land disputes. Although fictionalized, "The Crucible" really does cover this awful chapter in US history pretty reliably...
44 posted on 04/24/2004 10:13:51 AM PDT by miss marmelstein
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To: prairiebreeze
I have a suspicion that claiming self-defense for a woman doesn't carry much water in Islamic court.

Prairie

All right, then how about a self-defense/suicide? At least take the creep with you, and shooting yourself is quicker than self-immolation.

45 posted on 04/24/2004 10:43:29 AM PDT by Pearls Before Swine
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To: prairiebreeze
This article begs the question: "Is this a new trend or the continuation of something that the media never saw fit to report on before?"

Is suicide on the rise, on the decline, or about the same?

Or is this just "Bush's fault - women and children affected most"?
46 posted on 04/24/2004 11:30:08 AM PDT by weegee (Maybe Urban Outfitters should sell t-shirts that say "Voting Democrat is for Old Dead People.")
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To: miss marmelstein
Although fictionalized, "The Crucible" really does cover this awful chapter in US history pretty reliably...

The girls in The Crucible WERE playing at being witches out in the woods. Just as there were communists in America serving the Soviet Union.

The question is whether someone has the right/freedom to be an idiot (dancing naked in the woods as a witch or indoctrinating Americans into accepting communist socialism). The lesson from The Crucible was that innocent people were being tried based on the statements made by others on trial (girls who deliberately lied).

Now if someone wants to commit perjury and wrongly incriminate someone, that used to be considered a crime. After President Clinton's apologists said that "no one is prosecuted for perjury", I just don't know.

McCarthy was right and the KGB files back up the accusations.

47 posted on 04/24/2004 11:40:33 AM PDT by weegee (Maybe Urban Outfitters should sell t-shirts that say "Voting Democrat is for Old Dead People.")
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To: Rennes Templar
If you can get a burger in 10 minutes, why not a nation? :P
48 posted on 04/24/2004 11:48:01 AM PDT by grimalkin ("The artistic temperament is a disease that afflicts amateurs." - G.K. Chesterton)
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To: weegee
Jeez! All I meant is that "The Crucible" tells the story of the events in Beverly & Salem with a fair amount of accuracy. Who was talking about the McCarthy theme??? Lighten up already!
49 posted on 04/24/2004 11:54:55 AM PDT by miss marmelstein
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To: prairiebreeze
Another example of the sentiment: Give me liberty or give me death.
50 posted on 04/24/2004 12:26:14 PM PDT by Lorianne
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To: weegee
In the past year, the Afghan Independent Human Rights Commission has recorded at least 110 cases of self-immolation by women in just five parts of the country.

There have been no fewer than 56 cases in Herat, a Western province ruled by a hard-line Islamist accused of continuing "Taliban-like" restrictions on women.

One of the most interesting aspects of this piece is that half of the immolations occur in Herat. Western Afghanistan and south of Turkmenistan. Which pointed to a somewhat more regional , er, explanation for lack of better word.

Prairie

51 posted on 04/24/2004 1:07:12 PM PDT by prairiebreeze (Resign and testify you feckless, duplicitous, devious traitor. Yes, Jamie, I mean you!)
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To: miss marmelstein
I'm just saying that the women in The Crucible were witches. As to the accuracy of the trial, I do not know. The author was trying to make a point about McCarthyism, not religious freedom or a historically accurate time piece about the Puritans.
52 posted on 04/24/2004 1:27:28 PM PDT by weegee (Maybe Urban Outfitters should sell t-shirts that say "Voting Democrat is for Old Dead People.")
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To: weegee
You are so wrong if you believe that Arthur Miller wasn't trying to portray the events of that awful period in 17th century America. He was FASCINATED by the Salem witch trial and spent mucho hours up in Salem reading the transcripts. Of course, every high school kid knows that one of its themes was the McCarthy/Army hearings.

And I have to tell you, those kids were not really witches. There are no witches. And they didn't dance around in the wood, either - that was one embellishment of the play. They sat around a fire in winter, bored out of their minds, while Tatiba - that poor woman - told them witchcraft tales. Those tales produced the hysteria that lead them to accuse innocent people of witchcraft.
53 posted on 04/24/2004 1:57:59 PM PDT by miss marmelstein
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To: miss marmelstein
Arthur Miller's The Crucible: Fact & Fiction (or Picky, Picky, Picky...) by Margo Burns - New content added 02/01/04

Why I Wrote The Crucible: An Artist's Answer to Politics By Arthur Miller

54 posted on 04/24/2004 2:35:47 PM PDT by weegee (Maybe Urban Outfitters should sell t-shirts that say "Voting Democrat is for Old Dead People.")
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To: grimalkin
A burger requires you only kill one cow; a nation, 10,000
fanatical terrorists.
55 posted on 04/24/2004 10:34:30 PM PDT by Rennes Templar
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To: weegee
Thank you for the articles. As you can see, they prove my point about Miller's interest in the witch trials. The articles also remind me that while Miller is a fine playwright, he's one of the worst essayists in the world. Unreadable!
56 posted on 04/24/2004 10:35:03 PM PDT by miss marmelstein
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To: grimalkin
A burger requires you only kill one cow; a nation, 10,000
fanatical terrorists.
57 posted on 04/24/2004 10:35:10 PM PDT by Rennes Templar
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To: prairiebreeze
bttt
58 posted on 04/28/2004 12:39:06 PM PDT by TEXOKIE (The Will of God is Good! Not my will, not my will, not my will, but Thine be done!)
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To: prairiebreeze
No, Austin is predictably on point..."It's all Bush's Fault...WHIIIINNNNEEEE!"
59 posted on 04/28/2004 12:54:33 PM PDT by Redleg Duke (Stir the pot...don't let anything settle to the bottom where the lawyers can feed off of it!)
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To: prairiebreeze
In post-Taliban Afghanistan, despite a new constitution enshrining women's rights that the Western-backed government passed in January, this remains a depressingly familiar story.

Yeah, Reuters, women had it soooo good during the benign rule of the Taliban:


60 posted on 04/28/2004 12:57:51 PM PDT by dirtboy (John Kerry - Hillary without the fat ankles and the FBI files...)
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