To: goldstategop
A girl will always seek out a man like her father. Some will seek out any man because their father was so remote or absent that she didn't know him. This is why children of abusive men often marry abusive men.
This is why it is so crucially important for a father of a girl to be an upstanding, righteous, loving father.
We need to be the sort of man our daughters will want to marry.
No that's not right.
We need to be the sort of man that we want our daughters to marry
No that's still not right
We need to be the sort of man that God wants our daughters to marry.
One last point. Many men distance themselves from their daughters when their daughters hit puberty. That is, they become uncomfortable with letting their little girl sit on their laps etc when their little girl starts looking like a woman. This is a huge mistake. Even if her body is looking more like her mother's, in her heart she is still your little girl and she needs to be held and loved by her father. Pushing her away at this time will just push her to some other man who will give her attention, but not in the wholesome non-sexual way that her father would.
15 posted on
04/01/2004 6:06:57 AM PST by
John O
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To: John O
I totally agree. My father was the most important man in my life until I was 19 or 20 and started seriously seeing my now-fiance. My dad was the one person I could talk to about ANYTHING, and I knew I'd always recieve loving guidance and insight into the situation. As an adult, I still ask my father for opinions and advice on many matters.
It's only been in the last few months that I've realized how similar my future husband is to my father in many ways. It's really true that most women seek a partner who is similar to her father!
To: John O
Even if her body is looking more like her mother's, in her heart she is still your little girl and she needs to be held and loved by her father. Pushing her away at this time will just push her to some other man who will give her attention, but not in the wholesome non-sexual way that her father would.First of all, sorry for rehashing this thread.
And second, if a father tries anything like hugging his 15-year-old daughter in public, the feminazis in the social services agencies and the legal system will make sure the guy hangs high for "statutory rape".
Feminazis would rather have his daughter be banged by the whole high school football team.
56 posted on
08/30/2004 4:12:07 PM PDT by
El Conservador
("No blood for oil!"... Then don't drive, you moron!!!)
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