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Now, a Man's World Is at the Spa or Salon
New York Times ^ | 3/28/04 | New York Times

Posted on 03/29/2004 10:25:44 AM PST by qam1

John Galioto says he is no metrosexual. He did go to a Utah spa not long ago, but he was lured there by the prospect of hiking and rock climbing more than by the promise of massages and pedicures. Although he did indulge in a few massages when he was there, Galioto says he has not made the leap to lotions and facial peels. He is willing, though, to spend a few extra dollars on quality hair products.

"Just because I'm sensitive and get massages doesn't mean I'm a metrosexual," said Galioto, who took the spa trip last fall after leaving his job as a vice president at a consulting firm.

The lines are blurring between the men who work with their hands and the men who have their hands worked on. Galioto, who is 39 and lives in Manhattan, displays many of the traits that market researchers find more prevalent in men today.

Although women are often the focus of intense market research, men have rarely received such scrutiny of their buying habits, researchers say. Now businesses from brewers to cable television stations to skin-care companies are taking closer looks and are finding that the fashion-obsessed metrosexual man with a library of lotions is just part of the equation in men's consumer behavior. Today, men increasingly blend traditional macho attitudes with a heightened focus on their appearance, market researchers say. They are more in touch with their emotions but still want to be addressed as men. They are breaking new ground and need some direction.

Mary Meehan, executive vice president of Iconoculture, a trend tracking agency, said that those born after the mid-1960s were changing the definition of what it means to be a man. Men who came of age starting in the 1980s, after the feminist movement, have more opportunity to define themselves as they see fit, and their identities range across a broad spectrum, from the metrosexual to the beer-swilling football fan.

Many companies have been rethinking their approach to men. Even beer companies, long the standard-bearers of traditional male attitudes, have noticed something different in the brew. Miller Brewing said that its research found that men were not content with the bikini-babe frat-party image of much beer advertising.

"Men are tired of being depicted as Neanderthals, as if they have no mental capacity and can't make choices," said Tom Bick, senior brand manager for the Miller trademark.

Bick has found that men are more able to express their feelings, and are more willing to see women as people — not just party accessories.

As a result of his research, Miller has reworked its TV commercials, which focus on Miller's beer as an intelligent alternative to other beers and portray its drinkers as people who stand apart from the crowd.

That approach resonates with the market research done by Lowe & Partners Worldwide, an advertising agency. Joan Du-fresne, executive vice president for strategic services at Lowe, said that many men were moving away from a party-boy vision of maleness put out by magazines like Maxim and FHM.

But Dufresne also plays down the metrosexual vision of maleness at the opposite end of the spectrum. Men are more complicated than that, and more mature, she said.

Standing out from the crowd is important for young men, as is being self-assured and accountable, Dufresne said. Those qualities are displayed in an ad the firm did for Johnson & Johnson that shows a father with his infant son, having a more meaningful kind of guys' night than the one in a typical beer ad. Although metrosexuals are an important trend-setting group, some marketers say their impact has been limited to niche markets. The men's grooming market has remained stagnant over the last two years, according to Don Montouri, editor of Packaged Facts, a consumer market research firm.

Dieter Guillard, international marketing director at Nivea for Men, a division of Beiersdorf, that makes men's skin-care products, says men care more today about how they are perceived. He traces that in part to a service economy in which fewer men do physical labor. But, he said, Nivea has been careful to speak to men using a male language and images.

Nivea for Men's ad campaign tells men that because they work hard to stay fit, their skin should be fit, too.

Other companies with niche products have learned a similar lesson. Macho images and names can help sell products that are less than macho. Axe, a ruggedly named body spray from Unilever, became the market-leading men's body spray in just one year.

If approached with the right message, Guillard said, men are willing to take risks and try products that have long been associated with women. Spas, for example, are no longer a women-only venture. Some have incorporated traditionally male outdoor activities to try to draw more men.

Red Mountain Spa in St. George, Utah, opened 5 1/2 years ago with the goal of attracting a client base that was 40 percent men. Today that total is 35 percent, according to Deborah Evans, the spa's general manager. Red Mountain offers kayaking, snowshoeing, hiking, rock climbing, mountain biking and other outdoor activities. But it also offers things that some men find more challenging than any set of rapids: facials, pedicures and massages.

To her surprise, Evans found that men were not outdoing the women on the rock face, but on the massage table. Men, on average, had one to two more spa treatments during their stay than women did. She has even seen a growing interest in bachelor parties.

"Generation X and Y men have opened the door," Evans said. "They have given men permission to indulge in self-care and grooming without being considered feminine or gay."

Men also have their own television network, Spike TV, which started last summer after a round of research. Albie Hecht, president of Spike TV, a division of Viacom, said men's roles had changed drastically. Men are looking for more information about how to be the best fathers they can be, he said, and are finding that women are requiring more emotional honesty from them. And the growing presence of women in the workplace makes men want to be better dressed and groomed. In all of these areas, he said, men are looking for answers, but not without some entertainment.

Spike now offers such fare as a cartoon called Stripperella and reruns of Blind Date, Hecht said, but it plans to expand to documentaries and other programs that address some of the current male issues.

Even on a personal level, men can be increasingly curious. Galioto said that when he told his male friends about his trip to the Red Mountain Spa, he got a lot of puzzled looks. But, he said, once he explained about the hiking and rock climbing, many of those friends were much more interested. It wasn't the spa treatments, or even the activities, that really hooked them, Galioto said; it was the fact that the spa served beer.

"There are a lot of guys who are ready to embrace this stuff," Galioto said. "But we're not all the way there yet."


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Extended News
KEYWORDS: feminism; metrosexual
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To: BSunday; All; Tax-chick; Modernman
I see another side of the coin, frequently, in these discussions. Seems to me there is a good deal of denigration and contempt of women and womanliness implicit in these views of "girly men". Whereas there is little such if women are "like men". As a true feminist, I resent that. Maybe I'm just nuts but that's my impression much of the time. Hard to describe but I think unmistakable is the difference in discussion.
41 posted on 03/29/2004 11:44:54 AM PST by the OlLine Rebel (Common Sense is an Uncommon Virtue)
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To: Clemenza
Real men go to the Base Exchange for a 'high and tight' haircut....
42 posted on 03/29/2004 11:49:01 AM PST by Cogadh na Sith (The Guns of Brixton)
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To: the OlLine Rebel
So the "real men" over-react and tell us that no real man will do this, that, or the other to look nice - even if in fact (like Mel Gibson), they have obviously made some effort to look nice.

LOL. I doubt Mel gets $8 haircuts, that's for sure.

But too many think something as topical as worked-on nails or a suit means they're gay.

It's almost like people want to look low-class. Everywhere you go, it's jeans, t-shirts, running shoes and baseball caps. People used to aspire to look upscale.

Again, look at history. Esp. before the Civil War. Before then men had lots of colors, interesting clothes, longer hair was well-coiffed, everything

It used to be important to be a gentlemen and there were certain rules as to grooming and dress that a gentlemen would follow.

43 posted on 03/29/2004 11:50:51 AM PST by Modernman (Chthulhu for President! Why Vote for the Lesser Evil?)
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To: qam1
Quint: You've got city boy hands, Hooper. You been countin' money all your life.
44 posted on 03/29/2004 11:55:56 AM PST by Betis70
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To: qam1
I watch Spike TV, for the Star Trek TNG episodes.
45 posted on 03/29/2004 11:58:03 AM PST by Darkshadow (There was a thing called Heaven; but all the same they used to drink enormous quantities of alcohol.)
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To: Modernman
"'Again, look at history. Esp. before the Civil War. Before then men had lots of colors, interesting clothes, longer hair was well-coiffed, everything'

It used to be important to be a gentlemen and there were certain rules as to grooming and dress that a gentlemen would follow."


Yes, and I dare any1 to call them pansies!!! OOOooooo, I get mad thinking about it! >:(
46 posted on 03/29/2004 11:59:11 AM PST by the OlLine Rebel (Common Sense is an Uncommon Virtue)
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To: qam1
"Men are tired of being depicted as Neanderthals, as if they have no mental capacity and can't make choices," said Tom Bick, senior brand manager for the Miller trademark.

UGH! what he say! pardon, but must go, get women!
need cave cleaned!
need to make babies!
real man stuff! ugh!

47 posted on 03/29/2004 11:59:19 AM PST by cuz_it_aint_their_money (The only way liberals win national elections is by pretending they're not liberals. - Rush Limbaugh)
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To: qam1
"Men are tired of being depicted as Neanderthals, as if they have no mental capacity and can't make choices," said Tom Bick, senior brand manager for the Miller trademark.

Well, on its face, I'd say, That's refreshing, but this implies marketers did studies / polls many years ago, upon which they've based their ad campaigns, indicating guys wanted to be depicted as Neanderthals, and now the men have changed their minds. I doubt it. If I were a man, this would insult me.

48 posted on 03/29/2004 12:00:55 PM PST by GretchenEE (May the Lord give our enemies into our hands, quickly.)
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To: EQAndyBuzz
For an hour, she beats the snot out of me. No hot stones, no heating pads, no new age music. Just a get into the muscle, work out the kinks , make me scream in pain massage.

1. Does your Korean "therapist" wear a leather corset?

2. Does she provide a "happy ending."

49 posted on 03/29/2004 12:01:34 PM PST by Clemenza ("Knowledge is Good" --- Emil Faber, Founder of Faber College)
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To: Sam's Army
Yep.
50 posted on 03/29/2004 12:01:48 PM PST by GraniteStateConservative (...He had committed no crime against America so I did not bring him here...-- Worst.President.Ever.)
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To: Modernman
Well 007 is a result of the 60's too (well, sort of) and he was the epitome of debonair.

Personally I find the way most men dress here in CA rather slovenly. Especially when going to a nice restaurant or to church. They dress in ratty shirts with the tails hanging out, with jeans and sneakers.

I always go with the dress shirt, pants, and shoes. But I never get my nails done and just get a rather pedestrian haircut.
51 posted on 03/29/2004 12:01:54 PM PST by Betis70
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To: anyone
Can someone tell me just exactly what is a metrosexual?
52 posted on 03/29/2004 12:02:10 PM PST by GretchenEE
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To: Modernman; the OlLine Rebel
It's almost like people want to look low-class.

And the kids want to talk low-class (wuz up my nigga!), yet wear $150 sports jerseys.

53 posted on 03/29/2004 12:03:49 PM PST by Clemenza ("Knowledge is Good" --- Emil Faber, Founder of Faber College)
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To: GretchenEE
Can someone tell me just exactly what is a metrosexual?

It's a straight guy who has all of the good traits of a gay guy (grooming, dressing, culture etc.) without the bad traits (sex with men).

54 posted on 03/29/2004 12:04:13 PM PST by Modernman (Chthulhu for President! Why Vote for the Lesser Evil?)
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To: qam1
This thread brought to you by "Oil of Olay" -- the hand cream of gay matadors.
55 posted on 03/29/2004 12:04:29 PM PST by Snickersnee (Where are we going? And what's with this handbasket???)
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To: GretchenEE
metrosexual from what I know:

Think 'Queer Eye for the Straight Guy', but the guy with the eye is straight and doesn't need any help picking his clothes or knowing which salon gives the best manicure.
56 posted on 03/29/2004 12:04:52 PM PST by Betis70
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To: Spok
You can have the happy ending afterwards in some places.
57 posted on 03/29/2004 12:06:23 PM PST by GraniteStateConservative (...He had committed no crime against America so I did not bring him here...-- Worst.President.Ever.)
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To: PayNoAttentionManBehindCurtain
I go into my daughters shop all the time and ask them to cut my toe nails and scrape the dead skin off the bottom of my feet, they keep telling me NO. BigMack

That's because she works at a pizzeria, BigMack. ;^)

58 posted on 03/29/2004 12:08:50 PM PST by Teacher317
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To: GretchenEE
Can someone tell me just exactly what is a metrosexual?

A metrosexual is a gay guy who likes women.

59 posted on 03/29/2004 12:09:35 PM PST by LaBradford22
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To: GretchenEE
If I were a man, this would insult me.

If you were a man, you would be used to such drivel by now.

60 posted on 03/29/2004 12:09:36 PM PST by freedomlover
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