[Hostage]

My comment was to **illegal** residents. Most of the illegals here do not express their gratitude because they know they are breaking the law. They usually avoid social interaction with the American population. They find it safer to keep their status hidden.

As for your man, such people number in the millions worldwide. Was he here legally? If he was, then we can all be proud to welcome him. If he was not, then why does he deserve to be here over those in other countries that have been waiting years to be reunited with their family members through the legal process? Where is the justice? The answer is there is none.

[ladyinred]

No, he was not here legally. I thought I said that in my post, sorry if I didn't. I didn't say he deserved to be here, I said he was out there with us proudly waving the flag and thankful to be here. He was trying to get a green card however. I don't know if he ever did, but he was a very nice guy.

I did know very well a guy from a communist country, who came here on a visa, then didn't go home. He tried everything to get a green card, and could not. A harder worker you couldn't find, but this was in the 90's and no way would they grant him the right to stay. I see your point, but I guess I feel sorry for those who come from countries that are so depressed when they become real people to me, rather than just statistics. To be honest, I wish they would close the borders for awhile! I have very mixed feelings about this, obviously! :-)