Dr. Laura Schlessinger: 'The Proper Care And Feeding Of Husbands'

WorldNetDaily.com ^ | Tuesday, January 6, 2004 | Dr. Laura Schlessinger

[rintense]

I could say so many things on the word cat (and other words for something feline) but I won't go there. Hehehe.

[rintense]

Scary how well you know me.

[chris1]

We all need a laugh, don't we???????????

[technochick99]

Well, most women like jewelry, fwiw. That's never been a big factor for me. And most women I know wouldn't be so thrilled either - of course, my friends are very practical. But anyway, it's just a commercial that bears as little resemblance to real life as all of the other things you see.

[technochick99]

Well, most women like jewelry, fwiw. That's never been a big factor for me. And most women I know wouldn't be so thrilled either - of course, my friends are very practical. But anyway, it's just a commercial that bears as little resemblance to real life as all of the other things you see.

[Woahhs]

Yeah. Call me old fashioned, but I want to know someone's mind, heart and soul (and for them to know me the same) before we share our bodies. Unfortunately, not very many men respect that anymore. Well, the ones that do are already taken. :)

You seem to have all the loose ends tied up rather nicely. How's that workin' for you?

[Lazamataz]

Scary how well you know me.

;^)

[rintense]

That's why I'm still single. ;) Still looking for something real and true, not simply convenient.

[chris1]

Its tough out there!

[dc27]

Your post is dead on. I started a calender this year to document how many times my wife will initiate sex. She initiaited only one time last year. BTW, no amount of catering will increase my odds. I help with the kids homework, bath them, clean up the house, and put the kids to bed. She is still "tired." After 10 years of marriage, I have learned not to humiliate myself and beg.

[hellinahandcart]

"Interesting reading" ping...

[longtermmemmory]

As a cinima example with a bit of humor, look at the Mother and Father of the Bride in "My Big Fat Greek Wedding". Nothing works without respect for your role in amarriage and respect for the other person's role in the marrage.

I think the word manipulation is too strong. By that logic, giving a woman gold jewelry is manipulation.

[spectre]

Back to the original title...ahem.

From the day we were married, up and until now, there hasn't ever been one time, or one meal that I have served my husband that he hasn't said "Thank you, honey"..

It's the little things that count.

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[rintense]

Amen. It is very tough.

[Woahhs]

That's why I'm still single. ;) Still looking for something real and true, not simply convenient.

I dare say if you considered the possibility your definition of "real and true" were more subjective than you currently believe, you'd be taking a turn for the better.

It's not a perfect analogy, but I've always said a woman discussing with a man is like a man arm-wrestling with a woman. A "win" in either case is of questionable value.

[Quix]

FOLLOWING ae some books I'd recommend in the middles of these issues or at least related significantly to these issues.

I like James Dobson because I've met him and find him to be authentic if a bit . . . perfectionistic in some contexts. I think he's mellowed over time and I believe his writings are among the best on the subjects of family and marriage as well as male/female relationships.

He's at least real and candid. But, he speaks from a lot of personal experience and tons of counseling experience.

Blessings,



IN addition to

ATTACHMENT . . . by Tim Clinton and Gary Sibcy

and

WHAT WIVES WISH THEIR HUSBANDS KNEW ABOUT WOMEN, others of value by James Dobson [Some seem to be available in Spanish and a few in Chinese and German] are:

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Straight Talk: What Men Need to Know, What Women Should Understand
by: James C. Dobson
July, 1991

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Love For a Lifetime : Building a Marriage that Will Go the Distance
by: Dr. James Dobson
March, 2000

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For Couples in Love
by: James Dobson
June, 2002

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Love Must Be Tough : New Hope for Marriages in Crisis
by: Dr. James Dobson
January, 2004

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Seven Promises Of A Promise Keeper
by: Jack Hayford, Gary Smalley, Charles R. Swindoll, Max Lucado, Crawford Loritts, Isaac Canales, Howard G. Hendricks, Bill Bright, James Dobson, Luis Palau
22 July, 1999

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Straight Talk To Men
by: James Dobson
06 June, 2000

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Night Light: Devotional Thoughts for Couples
by: James, Dr Dobson, Shirley Dobson, James C. Dobson
April, 1902

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Love for a Lifetime: Building a Marriage That Will Go the Distance
by: James Dr Dobson

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Romantic Love: Using Your Head in Matters of the Heart
by: James C. Dobson, Gospel Light Publications
May, 1997

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Romantic Love: How to Be Head Over Heels and Still Land on Your Feet
by: James Dobson
January, 2004

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Prayers for a Lifetime : A Couples Guide to Intimacy with God and Each Other
by: Dr. James Dobson
August, 2004

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Straight Talk to Men : Timeless Principles for Leading Your Family
by: Dr. James Dobson
January, 2004

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Marriage at Its Best
by: Dr. James Dobson
July, 1990

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Dr. James Dobson on States of a Woman's Life
by: James, Dr. Dobson, Jean Lush
February, 1994

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The Feminine Factor: The Effects of Premenstrual Tension and Hormone Imbalance
by: James Dobson
April, 1985

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Men in Mid Life Crisis
by: James Dobson
April, 1985

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How to Reconcile a Marriage/Audio Cassette
by: James C. Dobson
December, 1987

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Life On The Edge Trusting God When Life Goes Wrong
by: James Dobson
08 January, 2001

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Prescription for a Tired Homemaker
by: James Dodson, Pale, James C. Dobson
August, 1982

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THEY SHOULD all be available at his website . . . let me see if I can get the link . . .

http://family.org/

[IrishCatholic]

Loved the post. I printed it off and then tried to read it to the wife. She heard about the book and took off with her fingers in her ears saying "NAAAANAAAANAAA I can't hear you. NAAANAAAANAAA" With me chasing behind reading the excerpts. The kids just looked us like we were nuts.
I am so lucky I married my best friend.

[Quix]

Ah well . . . have had a lifelong difficulty in detecting the difference between joking and sarcasm and meant statements.

[rintense]

It isn't about winning, really. It's about finding someone who shares the same values, morals and ideals.

[Quix]

Haven't read them but know many people have been helped by them.

Thanks.