[Calpernia]

John Candela, http://www.findagrave.com/cgi-bin/fg.cgi?page=gr&GSsr=321&GScid=764416&GRid=5840587&pt=John%20A%20Candela& . Dear friend of ours. At his memorial, none of us thought of warning his daughters that daddy would be in a box about the size of a shoe box. So when she asked mommy how daddy fit in that little box...well, mommy collapsed, I scope her us and sat in another room for about an hour fielding the most difficult questions an 8 year old can come up with.

We lost about 6 people that day. The Candela's are our longest and dearst friends.

[JustPiper]

At his memorial, none of us thought of warning his daughters that daddy would be in a box about the size of a shoe box.

My eyes are so burning right now. I am so sorry for the loss for this little girl and all the children who lost their parents. Cal, I am so sorry you lost so many friends and your very closest. My heart to you Cal!