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Defending Marriage, After Massachusetts: What the Court Did and How We Should Respond
National Catholic Register ^ | November 30 - December 6, 2003 | EVE TUSHNET

Posted on 12/03/2003 6:52:34 PM PST by nickcarraway

It's not every day a court gets to stand against all of recorded history.

That's what the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court did Nov. 18 when, in Goodridge v. Department of Health, it ruled that marriage in Massachusetts is no longer the union of a man and a woman but the union of "two persons." The court argued that forbidding a man to marry another man constituted unlawful and irrational sex discrimination.

The Bait-and-Switch

The court drew on several laws and state constitutional provisions in making its case, including anti-discrimination laws, hate-crimes laws and a constitutional provision modeled on the failed Equal Rights Amendment forbidding discrimination on the basis of sex.

There's just one problem: When Massachusetts legislators voted for these laws, they were assured again and again that same-sex marriage would not be the result. There is virtually no chance that these laws would have passed if voters and legislators had believed they would lead to the radical redefinition of marriage.

The Massachusetts court is saying to citizens, "You all go ahead and vote for the laws. Then we'll tell you what you really voted for. Don't expect it to look much like what you thought you agreed to." The rule of law requires that laws be predictable and stable - that laws not be yanked out from under citizens like a carpet in a Tom and Jerry cartoon. The Massachusetts court (like the Supreme Court in Roe v. Wade) has ignored this principle.

The funny thing is, this bait-and-switch approach to judging may be turned against the Goodridge decision itself in the future. As UCLA law professor Eugene Volokh (who supports same-sex marriage) has pointed out, the language the majority used in its decision gives no good reason to bar polygamy or adult incestuous marriages. If marriage is simply about commitment, well, obviously we can make commitments to more than one person. And we can make commitments to people who are already members of our families - for example, siblings. Why should these commitments not be recognized in law as marriages?

Although the Goodridge decision insists that the plaintiffs, and therefore its decision, do not "attack the binary nature of marriage [i.e. you can't marry more than one person], the consanguinity provisions [anti-incest provisions] or any of the other gate-keeping provisions of the marriage licensing law," why should the court expect its wishes to have any more force than the wishes of the voters and legislators the court has already ignored? If the court is willing to proceed from what it deems as the internal logic of various pieces of legislation, rather than either the plain text or the legislators' common understanding of what they were doing, why should later courts not apply the same test to Goodridge?

Procreation

The majority in Goodridge rejected the argument that marriage is an essentially procreative union, pointing out that couples who cannot have children are still permitted to marry. But this objection misses the point.

Marriage - civil marriage, not just sacramental marriage - is essentially a procreative union in two ways. First, marriage only exists because of procreation. Marriage developed as a universal human institution because when a man and a woman have sex, very often a baby is conceived. We've tried to convince ourselves that we have gotten around this "problem." But no matter how many hormones a woman pumps into her body, no matter how much latex we swathe ourselves in, intercourse still makes babies. If nothing else, the existence of almost 4,000 crisis-pregnancy centers in this country should prove that. Marriage developed because the children conceived by men and women need to be protected, and, especially, need strong legal ties to their fathers, whom biology allows to walk away far more easily than mothers.

And marriage developed because sexual risk is asymmetrical: Men and women face different risks when they sleep together. Men risk committing resources to care for children that may not be their own. Women risk being abandoned and left to care for a fatherless child. Marriage developed to minimize these risks. That's why no society - even among those that did have a social role for some expressions of male homosexuality - has instituted same-sex marriage until the past decade.

Second, marriage is procreative because marriage is society's way of ensuring that as many children as possible have mothers and fathers. A couple who cannot conceive children on their own can adopt, thus providing children with a mother and a father. Two men, however, can't replace a mother, nor can two women replace a father.

We see this most obviously in the inner cities, where many families consist of a grandmother, a mother and a child. Here, two women struggle to raise a child without a father. And the children say, again and again, that they need daddies. The sons say they had no one to teach them how to be men. The daughters say they had no one to teach them what to look for in a man, what role a man should play in the family.

Same-sex marriage says that men - fathers - are unnecessary in forming a family. This is one of the most detrimental messages a society can send.

What Now?

At first glance, the Massachusetts court seemed to have left a loophole for the Legislature: The court's ruling would not take effect for 180 days. In that time, court-watchers initially speculated, the legislature could seek to amend the Massachusetts Constitution, defining marriage as the union of one man and one woman. Such an amendment would override the court's decision.

But the Massachusetts constitution is difficult to amend, and it is impossible to amend in 180 days. So that route is out.

The Goodridge decision makes the question of the Federal Marriage Amendment all the more pressing. This amendment would prevent both courts and legislatures from enacting same-sex marriage. The most basic version of this amendment would read, "Marriage in America is and shall be exclusively the union of one woman and one man."

Amending the Constitution of the United States is a major project and not a step to be taken lightly. But if we do not take this step, we may lose the fundamental building block of society.

Eve Tushnet writes from Washington, D.C.


TOPICS: Constitution/Conservatism; Culture/Society; Editorial; Government; Miscellaneous; News/Current Events; Politics/Elections; US: Massachusetts; US: Virginia
KEYWORDS: conservatism; constitution; courts; family; gaymarriage; goodridge; homosexual; homosexualagenda; laws; marriage; massachusetts; prisoners; romans1; samesexmarriage
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To: Kevin Curry
98 looks a lot like 96.
101 posted on 12/06/2003 12:02:56 PM PST by breakem
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To: nickcarraway
How We Should Respond?

Our response should come within, to save our own marriages instead of denying others the right to get married.

We should respond by not getting divorced. Until heterosexuals stop getting divorces, we have no right to claim that others are destroying marriage.
102 posted on 12/06/2003 12:03:28 PM PST by BikerNYC
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To: breakem
So you can read. You just don't have a cluse and were hoping I'd let you off the hook?
103 posted on 12/06/2003 12:05:01 PM PST by Kevin Curry
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To: breakem
Your problem. You made a comment and I asked you what was behind your comment. If you made it off the cuff then just admit it.

From an admittedly biased observer, it appears that scripter is cleaning your clock. :-}

104 posted on 12/06/2003 12:05:12 PM PST by jwalsh07
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To: Kevin Curry
Apparently not, in fact during the wedding I don't think the police kicked down the door. In fact, I'm sure of it. Probably some governmental agency doesn't recognize it.

If there's no difference legally or benefit wise (BTW benefit has a wide meaning anywhere form personal, emotional to financial) then why do you care if they marry. Doesn't effect you?

105 posted on 12/06/2003 12:05:15 PM PST by breakem
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To: breakem
Does the law prohibit them from being with "they one they love"?
106 posted on 12/06/2003 12:05:29 PM PST by Kevin Curry
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To: jwalsh07
weak reading on your part. Your bias has prevented you from realizing he can't even explain his first comment.

I usually clean my clocks at daylight savings time, but thanx anyway.

107 posted on 12/06/2003 12:06:38 PM PST by breakem
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To: Kevin Curry
I am experience a phenonmenon on my computer where your questions show up before and after my answer. Is this happening on your computer?
108 posted on 12/06/2003 12:07:31 PM PST by breakem
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To: breakem
experiencing also
109 posted on 12/06/2003 12:07:48 PM PST by breakem
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To: breakem
LOL, same ole same ole.
110 posted on 12/06/2003 12:09:22 PM PST by jwalsh07
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To: BikerNYC
I always wondered how people defend their marriage. When they hear about a couple of homosexuals getting married, do they wisk the wife away to the mountains until the story is out of the papers or do they just board up the windows. Can't remember an attack on my marriage during 27 years, not even by homosexuals. It's odd that someone who wants to participate in something is attacking it.
111 posted on 12/06/2003 12:11:06 PM PST by breakem
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To: breakem
Yes, it does affect me. It affects all citizens.

These people are grossly sick in the head. They are sexually promicuous (and even their hero Andrew Sullivan admits gay marriage would not slow down their promiscuity), wholly sterile and incapable of reproducing children (the underlying reason for marriage). If they want to bugger each other senseless and attend the gay church of their choice where they can be blessed by the Bishop of the Holy Condom as "spouse and spouse"--let them. That's my live and let live.

112 posted on 12/06/2003 12:11:33 PM PST by Kevin Curry
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To: jwalsh07
You got that right. Truth doesn't change, thank God.
113 posted on 12/06/2003 12:11:49 PM PST by breakem
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To: breakem
They defnd it by staying married and encouraging others to stay married.

Having more and more committed couples, gay or straight, exist in stable relationships outside of marriage does not help marriage. Rather, it provides an alternative to marriage that will gain yet further accetance. The way to save Marriage is to rope more people into it.
114 posted on 12/06/2003 12:13:34 PM PST by BikerNYC
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To: breakem
Your problem.

Your post was a little premature and I encourage you to keep reading, and you say it's my problem?

You made a comment and I asked you what was behind your comment. If you made it off the cuff then just admit it.

Here's my comment that appears to have bothered you so much:

It's late so I may not get this right, but I believe the APA recently (this year) stated pretty much the same thing DeCecco said. That is, adult/child sex may not be as harmful to children as first thought. After a public outcry, the APA responded and said something about how they didn't mean to endorse pedophilia. Still, damage was done and who knows what confused person is going to use that reasoning to molest a child.
From what I've read everything I said above is true. The APA published an article, a public and political outcry ensued, which included House Majority Whip Tom Delay and others, and the APA responded and stated they don't endorse child abuse.

Again, there are web sites who use exactly that justification to molest children. Actions have consequences. And while the APA is doing what they can to prevent something like this from happening again, actions have consequences.

115 posted on 12/06/2003 12:14:34 PM PST by scripter (Thousands have left the homosexual lifestyle)
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To: BikerNYC
Why must the expansion of marriage be limited to same sex couples?
116 posted on 12/06/2003 12:16:56 PM PST by jwalsh07
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To: Kevin Curry
Kevin, Kevin, Kevin, sit down, take a deep breath.

Both of these women are fertile, so they are quite capable of having children. Now, here's the bad part for you. One of them has had a child. You've been here too long to not know thay many heterosexuals cannot have kids. Are they sick in the head too.

They are far from being sick in the head. In fact both of them seem to function outside the house, if profession, income, and respect from neighbors is an indication.

You are letting your sterotypic hatred for all persons homosexual blind you to the realities that there are some decent, smart people out their who have sex with people of the same gender.

No one is asking you to try it. My first proposal of marriage to you, was just a joke. My wife suggested it. Relax and let these people live their lives. They won't attack you, and if they do, us normal folks will rush to your defense. Promise.

117 posted on 12/06/2003 12:17:26 PM PST by breakem
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To: jwalsh07
LOL, same ole same ole.

That is so true.

118 posted on 12/06/2003 12:18:16 PM PST by scripter (Thousands have left the homosexual lifestyle)
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To: jwalsh07
It need not be limited to anything a priori. What did you have in mind?
119 posted on 12/06/2003 12:18:48 PM PST by BikerNYC
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To: scripter; jwalsh07
..........the APA responded and stated they don't endorse child abuse. Thanx, that wasn't so hard now was it.<

Don't be so paranoid. I was not "bothered" by that comment. I merely asked you to source it and connect it to your comment about the organization. The rest of the time you were twisting and turning because you assumed so much and did not just give a simple answer.

walsh, you were wrong again. Same ole, same ole.

120 posted on 12/06/2003 12:21:43 PM PST by breakem
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