[Texan5]

My hubby became my best friend in the later years of my first marriage. He saw many of the ugly scenes personally, and heard about the others, because I used to talk to him on the phone late at night when I was upset knowing my husband was with another woman instead of working out of town like he said. He even drove by her house once when I asked him to, and confirmed that my ex's truck was parked in the driveway at 12:30 am, and all the lights off in the house.

[Gabz]

He never cheated on me, but constantly accused me of doing it. According to him I had affairs with everyone from the governor on down to the 78 year old man who had an office across the hall from me!!!!!!

I remember one night, after I had left him, I was attending a political fundraiser and he was in the bar of the restaurant. He publicly accused me of having an affair with a state Senator, not knowing the gentleman in question was in the next room with his wife, and both heard the accusation.

I laugh about it now, because it actually was a funny scene, but I was absolutely mortified at the time. The senator's wife, who I knew very well, diffused the situation and in the end only the ex was humiliated, when he was permanently barred from the establishment!!!!