I read the article. She seems rather confused, schizofrenic really. Doesn't know if she wants a man with balls or with breasts....
She wants a man with balls, but then she says she wants a man "in touch with his feminine side". No wonder she hasn't found a man to her liking. A man with balls is not interested in getting in touch with his feminine side; he will be interested in getting HER feminine side in touch with HIS masculine side.
She should take out a personal ad: SHF searching for girly-man who has bigger balls than mine. (She won't find many takers)