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Posted on 03/06/2003 9:46:29 AM PST by CommandoFrank

After lurking for years, I am finally submitting my first post. My liberal Bush hating Mother wrote me this letter. Help...


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After lurking for years, I am finally submitting my first post. My liberal Bush hating Mother wrote me this letter. Following is my response. Any suggestions to enhance my response would be appreciated. (Her reference to state parks is because I am a park Ranger).

Dear Frank,

How is taking out Saddam getting rid of the fundamentalist Islamics all over the world? How is it stopping the spread of the above? We are the country (not France and Germany) that is becoming less relevant in the eyes of Europeans.

I equate Bush with dictatorship. Yes, with Hitler--he started out saying he was going to liberate all the countries that he took over. He pre-emptively took over those countries. He was arrogant and a bully. Bush can't wait to get his hand on Iraqi oil. He is an arrogant ass.

If I were president I would not have done my arrogant best to get all the allies to hate us. I would not start a war without figuring out how we will pay for it and how long we will be there. I would put more money into homeland security instead of sending all the troops overseas. I would not drill in the artic. I would not let our forests be cut down indiscriminately. I would deal with Saddam through the United Nations, not go it alone.

I would be sick to hear that the Pentagon has ordered 75,000 body bags (and they have) to send our youth back home in. I would not call it liberating the Iraqi people by going in and blasting them to kingdom come. I would not cover the truth with saying we will "liberate" the people of Iraq. I would tell the Americans that it will take trillions (this is the number that has been reported on CNN and in many papers) and that we may be in Iraq for ten years or more. After "Liberating" the people out of their homes and into the hereafter we will have to rebuild the place.

Where will the money come from since we already have a huge deficit? It will come down to the cities and states which will get less and less money and cut more and more services (maybe even close state parks if it gets bad enough) and state and local taxes will skyrocket even more than it has. Are you willing to pay the price to get rid of Saddam? Trillions of dollars sunk into that sink hole, maybe thousands of American lives lost not to mention increased terrorism here in the US as retaliation for the war; huge deficits, an economy even more messed up than it now is; a stock market that doesn't know which way is up.

I am through talking about this. You can send all the quotes you want. I won't read any more of it. The whole thing is making me ill.

Can we please quit talking about this. It makes me ill.

MY RESPONSE SO FAR...

Dear Mom,

I’m confused…Why do you think you can express your opinions to me and then deny my right to reply to your questions? I’m going to exercise my right and respond to your latest email.

Your first question asked how taking out Saddam gets rid of the Islamic fundamentalists worldwide. My answer is that it does not!

Next you asked how is it stopping the spread of the fundamentalists’ agenda. My answer again is that it is not!

Please allow me to share my thoughts on exactly what removing Saddam will accomplish.

First, it will stop the thousands of murders Saddam is committing on his own people. The very latest atrocity reported is that he is now executing some of his own scientists so they cannot reveal his WMD secrets. I can give you the reference for this if you doubt it.

Next, I believe it will greatly reduce the Islamic fundamentalists’ ability to acquire WMD that they want to use on us. Saddam has them; the Islamic wackos have already tried to get them. We must dismantle the worldwide terrorist organization and ridding the world of Saddam is just one step. Fasten your seat belt because there are more countries harboring and training terrorists. They’re next and I support it. We must prevent them from getting a nuke or it’s goodbye to an American city.

I don’t know where you are getting your information from but there are many more European countries (16 out of 19) that support us than don’t. That doesn’t sound like we’re ‘going it alone’. If you would like a reference on this point let me know.

You state President Bush is a dictator. A dictator is a ruler who is not effectively restricted by a Constitution, laws or recognized opposition. A dictator is a person who makes pronouncements which are regarded as supremely authoritative. Hitler was a dictator; President Bush is not a dictator. Saddam is a dictator; President Bush is not like Saddam. President Bush is our President. President Bush believes in defending our country. Deal with it.

You stated Bush can’t wait to get his hand on Iraqi oil. I find that a ridiculous statement and cannot agree with it as we were there in Kuwait and Iraq before and didn’t take over the oil fields. Think about it. If that was the case why didn’t we do it then? There is no country in the world that could have prevented it. Look at it this way. We’re in Kuwait right now. Are we trying to take over their oil? It would be very easy to do so…

Your statement that Bush is an arrogant ass is your personal opinion and has nothing to do with whether or not we should remove Saddam from power. President Truman, a president I respect, did not earn the nickname ‘Give’em Hell Harry’ by being gentle and/or being politically correct. Your statement tells me that you are one of those who are blinded by your dislike for this Republican President. Let me prove it. Everywhere you see Bush’s name, replace it with Clinton’s name. Does the picture change any? You know it does. Fact: President Bush and President Clinton both shared the same view on removing Saddam from power and their view is for the protection of the USA. When Clinton launched hundreds of cruise missiles and deployed our military in other countries without going to the UN first, no one in the world stood up and complained. Not even the UN! Nor you!

President Bush is not doing his arrogant best to get the ‘allies’ to hate us. Where did you get that idea? Again, I say your bias is blinding you. President Bush is forcing the UN to do what they were supposed to be doing over the past several years. What good is the UN if they issue resolutions and then don’t back them up? Seventeen resolutions in twelve years (eight of those years being under President Clinton’s watch) have been issued to Saddam to disarm and the only change is that he constantly continues his quest for more WMD. Even as he is currently destroying those illegal missiles, he is producing more. Where is it going to stop? Someone must stand up to him and that is exactly what President Bush is doing, with the support of the MAJORITY of European governments. Thank God we have a president with the conviction to protect our country from evil. Rather than selling missile secrets to China for cash, rather than setting up Korea with the ability to make nuclear bombs, he is standing up to the “axis of evil”. No wonder they hate us.

Do you know that there are pro-war rallies nationwide? Do you know there are people who see the need to disarm Saddam, French people and German people who support President Bush? I’ll bet you didn’t. It seems like our liberal news channels are ignoring these facts. You mentioned CNN; I rest my case.

You said you would not start a war without figuring out the cost. Like we did that with Japan, Germany, Korea and Vietnam? Please tell me how you would calculate the cost of the war prior to the war. There are so many variables involved I would not even attempt to do so. We are still in Japan and Germany after WWII but look at what we’ve done with those two fascist countries. Was it worth it? I would certainly say it was.

I agree with you in that more should be done with homeland security but not sending the troops overseas as you stated seems to me to be sort of an isolationist attitude. Let me ask you this. Did you protest when Clinton involved us with more overseas deployments of our military then any other President in history? All without UN sanction… When Americans were dieing from these deployments did you protest?

What would bringing the troops home do to increase homeland security? It is against the law to use federal troops on the border. It is against the law to use the military as civilian police. So what would you do? Declare martial law and have the military run the country? I don’t think so. Do you want the military standing on every corner of our cities, checking our IDs and asking for reasons of being at a certain location without their approval?

Your statement about drilling in the Arctic and not cutting down the forests does not fit in the scope of ousting Saddam Hussein. It sounds like Bush bashing to me.

You say you would deal with Saddam through the UN rather that going it alone. What do you think has been happening for the past 12 years in the UN, resolution after resolution? What do you think President Bush has been doing? How many more resolutions and years of delay must pass before we take a different course? And where do you get the idea that we are ‘going it alone’? Look at the facts. There are currently 35 nations in the “Coalition of the Willing.”

I have a friend who told me the definition of stupidity. “Stupidity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results”. Doesn’t this sound like the UN?

Yes, the Pentagon has ordered body bags. It happens every time prior to the possibility of war. It doesn’t mean they will all come back full, does it? There are tens of thousands of white crosses marking our brave soldiers’ graves on foreign soils, particularly in France. The French would be speaking German today if our brave President at that time in history had not stepped up to the plate.

You paint a pretty pessimistic scenario in reference to removing Saddam. I would venture to say it will be a lot cheaper to stop him now before he expands and takes over the Middle East and who knows how far out he will go after that. And yes I am willing to pay the price to stop Saddam. I am willing to pay the price to stop the radical Islamic Fundamentalists. I am not willing to see our country nuked by WMD furnished by countries like Iraq that support the Muslim movement to take over the world using violence. I would not have it any other way.

You referred to Iraq as ‘that sinkhole’; you mentioned the possibility of American lives being lost and the possibility of retaliation in the US. First of all, Iraq is not a sink hole. It is a country of people like you and me that are being crushed by a murderous dictator. These people are not barbarians. They are educated people like us without the freedom we enjoy. You forget to mention that they might lose lives along with us. The Iraqis who have managed to escape from Iraq know that and are still willing to do what it takes to oust Saddam. They realize freedom is not free and without sacrifice. What has happened to the compassion from the left for the people of Iraq? Just as the radical Islamic Fundamentalists are willing to die for their cause, so must we. Kill or be killed…

I am sorry for you that this subject is making you ill. I am worried and fearful, too. I hope and pray there will be no war. But I also realize that for a free democratic world to exist, we must rid ourselves of the terrorists’ world wide that are striving to destroy us. We cannot negotiate these evil empires away. History tells us freedom comes through strength and action. I really think that if you could somehow overlook your dislike for Bush you’d have a different opinion on removing Saddam.

Letting your personal feelings for our President cloud your perspective and burying your head in the sand is not the answer.

I find your last statement very interesting. You stated “Can we please quit talking about this? It is making me ill”. I have heard this sentiment from others who do not want to face reality. Are you using it as a defense to terminate the discussion because you really don’t have an answer or that perhaps you know I am right?

Your Son,

Frank

1 posted on 03/06/2003 9:46:29 AM PST by CommandoFrank
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To: CommandoFrank
You'd better sit down. From what I can see here, your parents must have adopted you.
2 posted on 03/06/2003 9:48:02 AM PST by dirtboy (The Pentagon thinks they can create TIA when they can't even keep track of their own contractors)
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To: CommandoFrank
...becoming less relevant in the eyes of Europeans.

Can you IMAGINE a worse fate than being seen as "less relevant" in the eyes of Europeans?

3 posted on 03/06/2003 9:48:23 AM PST by Illbay
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To: CommandoFrank
(maybe even close state parks if it gets bad enough)

Gasp! What ever would we do?

4 posted on 03/06/2003 9:50:25 AM PST by Textide
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To: CommandoFrank
What you have written so far is good but don't send it before the FReepers write. I can tell you that when my lesbian/teacher/flaming liberal/sister wrote the same kind of letter to me, the Freepers helped me get her to a point where she gave up. She finally wrote and said, I have to consider your points!!! Wow!
If you like I can send copies to a private reply.
5 posted on 03/06/2003 9:52:17 AM PST by netmilsmom (Bush/Rice 2004- pray & fast for our troops this lent-Peace through strength)
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To: dirtboy
You might point out that the Europeans that are not supporting us are those with blood on their hands.


6 posted on 03/06/2003 9:52:46 AM PST by Ingtar
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To: CommandoFrank
I feel for you, Frank. It can be difficult speaking to parents...

Idiot Son: Ramblings of a Lonely Black Conservative

7 posted on 03/06/2003 9:55:46 AM PST by mhking (It's a long kick; and the Iraqis take it on the 2, down the left side, and stopped on their own 18.)
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To: CommandoFrank
I know you must love your Mom and all but if I were you I would just resign myself to the fact that she is an idiot and should probably be put in a nursing home. Don't visit her anymore. Sometimes people just need to be written off.
8 posted on 03/06/2003 9:56:18 AM PST by Lauratealeaf (Pray for President George W. Bush and the troops)
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To: CommandoFrank
Don't know if this is real or not but my mom hated GW too. She stated she was a democrat and he didn't support vets. My response was huh? because he hadn't even had time to unpack in the WH yet. She then told me she was mad at GB SR. because of all things my step father was having trouble getting dentures. Can't argue with them though so I took her to a "He's not my president" counter rally. She looked at all the crazy and malcontents and asked me who those people were. I told her demorcrats, just like you. She said I am not one of them I'm one of yall and picked up a Bush won fair and square sign and started freeping. She always asks now when we are goining to do this again. lol
9 posted on 03/06/2003 9:56:32 AM PST by CindyDawg (.)
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To: CommandoFrank
I have a liberal father who thinks pretty much the same way; you have to forgive them because they are victims of a brainwashed liberal media and not likely to change anytime soon. they're also extremely frustrated as liberalism is repeatedly discredited, they've lost all power in the past two elections, and their hero Bill Clinton is now a known despot reduced to sparring with Bob Dole on 60 Minutes. Don't argue, it's a stone wall. rather, enlighten over time by sending links to source articles that dispel all the liberal myths and expose the DemoncRATs as the pathetic obstructionists that they are.
10 posted on 03/06/2003 9:56:55 AM PST by Steven W.
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To: CommandoFrank
maybe even close state parks if it gets bad enough

?

What's the problem? Is not closing National Forests enough? I mean, as long as they're in someone else's state, right?

11 posted on 03/06/2003 9:58:34 AM PST by 1rudeboy
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To: CommandoFrank
Frank,

You don't need help from us. You've done a fantastic job in your reply. Just remember that someone who is unwilling to learn the truth might do so eventually, but it takes time and a reduction in anger. She will see the light, but most likely not before we haev finished Saddam.

12 posted on 03/06/2003 10:00:45 AM PST by RedWing9 (We will vie for Lord Stanley... again!)
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To: CommandoFrank
Frank... I say it is hopeless. She is in denial, I have a friend who has a mother with your mothers same thought. They are deceived.

I will ADOPT YOU..... And I will assure you that Easter will be much more enjoyable at my house... so come on down.
13 posted on 03/06/2003 10:01:11 AM PST by JFC
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To: CommandoFrank
My mom came into the world during the last phase of the baby boom and bears all the accompanying ideological scars...Her liberal views on world affairs just bounce off me now, but her views on domestic policy are still extremely irritating. I just try to ignore it and write it off as senility.

Besides the patriots who stood up to the liberals and served their country during the 60s-70s, I have come to believe that hers was truly a cursed generation that nearly destroyed the country...And I have doubts if my generation or the next one packs the gear to fix all the damage...

14 posted on 03/06/2003 10:02:22 AM PST by American Soldier
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To: CommandoFrank
whatsa matter with you??????

you left off "I love you, Mom"

It's the only line that matters in a letter to your mom.

(sigh............kids!)
15 posted on 03/06/2003 10:02:43 AM PST by WhiteGuy (Cynical)
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To: CommandoFrank
Nice, respectful reply to someone who, like my own mother, will likely shake her head and wonder what is wrong with you. My mom gets all her "news" from Dan/Tom/Peter/CNN. They refuse to see the obvious and are comfortable knowing that what they hear from TV is the "truth".

It's like banging your head against the wall but hopefully if you keep plugging away, someday, they may see the light and know the "real" truth.

16 posted on 03/06/2003 10:03:22 AM PST by PLOM...NOT!
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To: CommandoFrank
Can we please quit talking about this. It makes me ill.

If this was my Mom, here would be my reply:

OK, let's quit talking about this. I'm not going to change your mind, and you're not going to change my mind. So I think it's a good idea to stop aggravating one another. Hope you're feeling well.

Love,

Your Son

But that's me.

If proving you are right is of ultimate importance to you, know the cost of escalating the argument risks your relationship with your mother. If that's an acceptable cost, go for it. You'll get plenty of ammo on this thread. But the dynamics of what you've written suggests to me that you will NEVER change your mother's mind, no matter how mis-guided she is.

17 posted on 03/06/2003 10:04:25 AM PST by Semi Civil Servant (I dont have a clever tag line. I'm terribly sorry.)
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To: Lauratealeaf
Sometimes people just need to be written off.

I am afraid you are right. For some inexplicable reason, my father became a rabid liberal. Maybe because it was his time to be ordered how to vote by the AARP, maybe because it was his turn at the trough, but for whatever reason, it became impossible to communicate with him at all.

I was sickened that a WWII Veteran had become such a leftist, and I am still sad that I did not speak to him the last two years of his life, but that seemed the be what he wanted.

My last words were, "If I wanted to hear that stuff, I would subscribe to the Boston Globe!"

18 posted on 03/06/2003 10:04:40 AM PST by Gorzaloon (Contents may have settled during shipping, but this tagline contains the stated product weight.)
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To: WhiteGuy
"whatsa matter with you??????

you left off "I love you, Mom" "

I was about to post the same thing :)
19 posted on 03/06/2003 10:04:43 AM PST by Jn316
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To: CommandoFrank; Admin Moderator
"...I equate Bush with dictatorship. Yes, with Hitler--he started out saying he was going to liberate all the countries that he took over. He pre-emptively took over those countries. He was arrogant and a bully. Bush can't wait to get his hand on Iraqi oil. He is an arrogant ass..."
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Welcome to free republic
And this is what you decided should be your first post?
Yes FR is just the place to bring your family squabbles to (NOT).
Personally, anyone that says things like this is worthy of ignoring.
Mom or otherwise.
Cast not your pearls before swine.
20 posted on 03/06/2003 10:04:58 AM PST by Hanging Chad (not to be confused with "Hanging Ten" or "Hanging Wallpaper"...)
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