[ConservativeMan55]

Thanks for all the advice everyone. Does anyone know why women end up dating guys who treat them badly or are unsuccessful?

[daviddennis]

It has something to do with primal desires, which are for good looking guys who give them a feeling of danger, which brings a certain zest for life with it.

People who are "nice" are also "bland", at least on the outside.

And, after all, many guys aren't that attracted to "nice" girls, either.

Unfortunately :-(.

D

[Cvengr]

Consider it a blessing. There's a reason for it in His plan. Follow Him and you'll be more blessed than any other course you can follow. if it's a curse, then remember that for every cursing there is a blessing. Just turn the cursing into a blessing and don't turn the blessings in to cursings. Good luck and keep the faith.

[bigfootbob]

IMHO it's the size of the unit.

[Lando Lincoln]

Does anyone know why women end up dating guys who treat them badly or are unsuccessful?

Greetings CM55 - couldn't resist......I think it goes back to the cave man/cave woman. The cave woman always chose the dominant, aggressive male as her mate. Helped her survival. Well, after generation upon generation of that....well it's kind of written in their genetic code.

Well, it's one theory, anyway....Good Luck!! ;>)

[Balata]

Does anyone know why women end up dating guys who treat them badly or are unsuccessful?

Here's your homework assignment. Go to Starbucks that's connected to a Barnes and Noble, order a grande non-fat latte then purchase a book titled "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Dr. Robert A. Glover. Then sit down right there and start reading it.

[jrushing]

Does anyone know why women end up dating guys who treat them badly or are unsuccessful?
Sad facts of life. Don't worry about them. They're no good anyway. I would have to guess that you're trying too hard & being too impatient. 20 year olds want everything now & think they've waited 20 years. It hasn't been that long. Slow down & enjoy life.

ps: women don't like the guys who chase them. See, Does anyone know why women end up dating guys who treat them badly or are unsuccessful?, above.

[rwfromkansas]

I have heard elsewhere that it is since girls want "mystery," so they go for the crazy types that are rather wild, who in turn, are the types that treat them badly.

I love the folks I sit with at the lunch table. The other day, one of the girls there threw a huge fit about how stupid girls are; I enjoyedit quite immensely....:) She is the epitome of an anti-feminist.

[thetruckster]

"Does anyone know why women end up dating guys who treat them badly or are unsuccessful?"

Because they have low self-esteem or the girls are dumb enough to see a low-life as a challenge to "change."