Shame on you, teen smokers' mom says - Woman posts fliers to keep her twins away from cigarettes
West Bend - Karen Paape has a simple request of anyone who sees her twin 16-year-old sons smoking: Call the police.
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No Smoking
You'd think you could shame them, wouldn't you? 
Angry that her sons Gavin and Bradley Belunes continue to smoke cigarettes, she snapped a couple of pictures of the boys, made up a flier and posted it at two gas stations near their West Bend home.
"If you see them smoking, please call the police on them. Signed, their loving parents," the poster says.
"I told them I was going to slap their mug all over the city," she told a reporter when asked about the posters. "You'd think you could shame them, wouldn't you?"
Mom's guerrilla tactics - which also include surprise inspections at friends' homes and a sniff test when her sons come through the door - don't sit well with at least one of the boys.
"I tore one of them up," Gavin said of the fliers, "and I joked it off with my friend, like I didn't care. But I'm pissed. I tried being honest with her, that I smoked, and then she does this."
A good idea?
Is all this tough love - executed in public - a good idea?
John Hyatt, assistant director of IMPACT Alcohol and Other Drug Abuse Services, isn't convinced. He called Paape's approach "interesting."
"I'm not sure I would necessarily recommend it," said Hyatt, whose firm runs a number of rehabilitation programs. "The reason I like it is it says she cares, that she is concerned and she's involved in her kids' lives." ... rest of story here