I am shocked at times as well, Bella Bru...then again, I think we're all capable of spouting off w/o thinking rationally and lacking a sensitive heart...Christian or not. We're all quite human.
Those of us who have either dealt with cancer ourselves or our loved ones tend to have a more understanding heart, imo.
My mom is 59. I have been begging her to have that stupid colonoscopy done. I am about 2 seconds away from flying home, hog tying her, and dragging her to the doctor myself.