Posted on 06/26/2026 4:09:31 AM PDT by Libloather
Keeping up with the prom joneses.
Gone are the days of posing in gowns and tuxes at a designated classmates’ house while snacking on some chips and soda before hitching a ride to prom.
Today, highfalutin parents are spending upwards of $30,000 on over-the-top pre-prom parties that are in the same realm as an A-lister jetting off to a fancy award show.
Think professional photographers, stunning decor and catered food so good it could tempt high schoolers to skip prom altogether.
Proud Philadelphia mom Lanise Gartei spared no expense when it came to her daughter Lakyia’s prom send-off.
She not only funded a $3,000 custom Qaysean Williams dress for her high schooler’s big night, but Gartei didn’t bat an eyelash at spending around $6,000 for a luxe prom send-off, which included a roped red carpet that led to a stunning step and repeat, massive balloons and a Lamborghini rental.
“I feel like it’s definitely a celebration, and you should go all out if you can for your kid,” proud mom Lanise Gartei told ABC News.
Another Philly mom went as far as hiring an event planner to transform a city lot into a Cinderella-inspired pre-prom party for her teen that could’ve been mistaken for a Disney movie set.
It might’ve set the family back $27,000, but the smile on their daughter’s face? Priceless.
“It’s the family’s prerogative to do what they want to do, and prom send-offs are a thing now,” she told 6 Action News.
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As time progresses American kids are becoming more and more spoiled to the point many are just worthless when adult hood arrives. This is particularly true with the extreme wealthy. Those brats become the commie’s useful idiots when it comes to riots, protests and violence.
Well, they ain’t getting married…so I guess the parent wants to spend money on them.
They are misguided.
This is very poor parenting. IMHO there is no other way to look at it. What’s the message?
Both mom and daughter scream high maintenance.
Is this a chick thing, or are male attendees doing this, too?
Hood Prom...the peak of Ghetto Life.
Well that is just stupid.
Do these same people vote for abortion?
A Facebook page on the subject...
https://www.facebook.com/groups/1688114615260114/posts/2268603670544536/
Jeez louise.
So there’s a price tag on good parenting?
Another Philly mom went as far as hiring an event planner to transform a city lot into a Cinderella-inspired pre-prom party for her teen that could’ve been mistaken for a Disney movie set.
They also have to make sure that they out do their child's peer's parents on these special events. They no doubt have someone who counts how many kids attend their child's event.
Major credit card debt that will NEVER be paid back. Instead of putting that towards college, a savings account or a car where their child can use it for WORK, they WASTE this money on BS.
Too bad they just can’t steal it like they do everything else.
Seriously. If youre a billionaire okay but draining your 401k to fund a party for your kids as means to flex how “cool” of a parent you are is asinine…. And lets be honest this IS about the parents. This is why kids lack fundamental understanding of budgets and basic economics.
I never went to a prom & can’t say I ever missed it,altho I would have to say I certainly missed certain things connected with it, but nothing that ever affected me later in life. My parents never had the money required for me to attend a prom, but they were the best of parents nevertheless.
I equate that to the same idiots that spend $50-100k or such on a wedding to watch a divorce within 2 years.
That seems to be the LCD when looking at the photos in the story. Obese LaQuishes, LaToyas, and Jamals…
Interesting names ...
And then when they get their diploma having a C average, they go and dance and twerk it up, as if they really accomplished something.
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