I will also say that at a certain point people begin to make themselves.
Mom and Dad guide you during your first four years and friends begin to guide you afterwards but what you are as an adult is what you have decided to be.
The good part about that is you are not stuck as you are now. If you want to be different, you can. It is just going to be a whole lot of work.
“ Mom and Dad guide you during your first four years”.
Which is why day care is such a bad idea.