The state has become the Father for too many. It has become the source of retirement when children use to be what people depended on in their old age .This breakdown of the family is due today to a break down in religion. Christian marriages tend to last longer but the current culture is determined to cut Christians out of the political process. It has largely succeeded with Islam moving in to fill the void .
Islam needs to be reformed—they have needed it for at least two hundred years. Once we Christians burned women for being witches—but we have grown from that. So to Islam needs to try to convert Jews not shoot them. Reformation can start with Men and Women worshiping together—side by side (as Mohammad did with his wives).