I don’t think abortion and IVF are analogous for comparison. Wiithout IVF, those 93,000 babies likely wouldn’t be here either, and the destroyed embryos would still be lost. That is the limited extent of this comment.
There were ca 3 600 000 live births in the USA in 2023. Between 10 - 20% of all pregnancies end up in miscarriages. This is a low figure since many occur very early in the pregnancy and go undetected. About 80% of the miscarriages occur in the first trimester. So, a low estimate would indicate that there were more than 700 000 early spontaneous abortions in 2023.
Unfortunately, if mankind wants to avoid any fetal deaths then we must not try to procreate.
Abortion takes a person to carry it through. IVF failure is nature in the works.
I don’t want to pay for things that I regard as immoral.