See, the problem here is history and a lack of knowledge of that history.
The socialist movement pushed Women’s Suffrage based upon misogynist generalizations about women...and they were correct about those generalizations.
From that seed we have “You don’t need a man, woman” then the ultimate in penis envy, “I want to be a man, so I’m just going to cling to that delusion...whoever assigned my gender at birth was wrong.” (FYI: It’s assigned at conception.)
At about the same time, very young, very impressionable boys were taught that the women were correct. Should those boys not understand that, they were heavily, and punitively, treated until we reach the point where they, as young men realized, they’re actually BETTER OFF without women.
The sex drive, being what it is, still results in some procreation, some marriage, but more often divorce, and now, birth rates below replacement rates.
What all of this means is your erstwhile punching bag “Secret Agent” is correct, and you are incorrect...Kool Aid and all.
The fact is that there are still many normal people who believe in traditional roles and are optimistic in their expectations of love, marriage, and family. They are the hope for the future.
The jaundiced, bitter views being promoted by some who have had bad experiences are not helping anything to improve at all. They are just making things worse.