Count me in that group. I’ve tipped 20% for decades. I’ll still do it, but am less likely to even eat somewhere where there is table service. And that is the ONLY thing I tip for.
The reason? I found out our server has to share their tips. That didn’t happen in the 70’s when I was in the business, nor in the 80’s when I delivered for Dominoes for a few months. That’s just stupid.
When I was married to my wife in the 80s, she worked at Pizza Hut. They split the tips for all the waitresses.
I’m upping the tip for my hairdresser. She is good!!