I’ll bet that most American men don’t care about a long lasting relationship from the Ukrainian women. There are several women in my office that have dated thru dating web sites.
They’ve all said the guys were looking for one thing. And some are Christian dating web sites. These are attractive, intelligent, younger nice women that simply can’t find a man.
Here is the thing about dating sites. The women typically will choose the top 10% of guys and reject the 90% below them. So, the 10% top guys don’t commit because they don’t have to. They get plenty of attention from women and will typically be able to have their choice and as much sex as they wish.
The women, because they had a one night stand with Mr. 10%, will typically have a skewed idea about their market value and will not choose the bottom 90% because they once had a fling with Mr. 10%.
I’m not saying that all women are like this, but that is the tendency. The bottom 90% will typically wait until the women’s intersection of attractiveness and attention start intersecting at lower levels.