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The No. 1 Reason You Should Call Instead of Text, According to Science
BestLife ^ | 10/25/20 | Kali Coleman

Posted on 09/10/2024 9:46:21 AM PDT by DallasBiff

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To: married21

How about texting before one calls? That’s often what I will do.

My wife will text somebody and they get into a long back and forth. Dates, times, places to meet, etc. I’ll comment and say “You know - it would really be something if somebody could figure out a way to talk long distance over some sort of device.”

I used to hate texting - now I see where it has its place.


21 posted on 09/10/2024 10:13:39 AM PDT by 21twelve (Ever Vigilant - Never Fearful)
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To: spincaster

such profanity lol


22 posted on 09/10/2024 10:16:42 AM PDT by one guy in new jersey
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To: DallasBiff

While true, texting still works in bad cellphone conditions in many cases.


23 posted on 09/10/2024 10:19:13 AM PDT by RayChuang88 (.FairTax: America's Economic Cure)
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To: DallasBiff

I already knew this and attempt to do this. Texting is two machines talking to each other, requiring a huge amount more words to create fake symblance of emotions.


24 posted on 09/10/2024 10:20:07 AM PDT by MeneMeneTekelUpharsin (Freedom is the freedom to discipline yourself so others don't have to do it for you.)
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To: DallasBiff

For many reasons I prefer texting.


25 posted on 09/10/2024 10:26:31 AM PDT by exPBRrat
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To: DallasBiff

Call, don’t text—at least for friendly, nonbusiness calls.

If we cam’t come to the phone, we can call back.


26 posted on 09/10/2024 10:30:00 AM PDT by Honorary Serb (Kosovo is Serbia! Free Srpska! Abolish ICTY!)
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To: DallasBiff

From friends, I’ll go for a phone call any day. But if your name doesn’t come up and your number isn’t in my contacts, I will let it go to voicemail. Texting is too impersonal and risks losing a lot in translation.


27 posted on 09/10/2024 10:30:34 AM PDT by Hatteras
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To: DallasBiff
The advantage of a text message is that the recipient can read it and respond on their own time.

Personally, I don’t like text messages. I find them intrusive and aggravating. If it’s important, call me. If it’s not urgent, then just send me a damned e-mail.

28 posted on 09/10/2024 10:32:37 AM PDT by Alberta's Child (“Ain't it funny how the night moves … when you just don't seem to have as much to lose.”)
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To: exPBRrat

>> For many reasons I prefer texting.

Texting is basically what we’re doing right here.

Anyhow, texting is a TOOL. Like every other tool there are situations where it’s appropriate and situations where it is not.


29 posted on 09/10/2024 10:33:24 AM PDT by Nervous Tick ("First the Saturday people, then the Sunday people...": ISLAM is the problem!)
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To: DallasBiff
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30 posted on 09/10/2024 10:33:34 AM PDT by Responsibility2nd (Leaving Abortion up to the States is like Leaving Slavery up to the States.)
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To: 21twelve

😆. Sounds like something Mr. Married21 would say.
But indeed I do use a text to set up an appointment for a live call, especially for complex things or different time zones.

But if you just want to share a meme or a joke, a text is the thing to do.


31 posted on 09/10/2024 10:33:45 AM PDT by married21 (As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.)
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To: DallasBiff

but if your gmail account is malfunctioning, Google won’t respond to either texts or phonecalls OR even offer a chat function to fix it

GooGoo manages gmail like IneligibleHarris runs the the USA border


32 posted on 09/10/2024 10:34:46 AM PDT by faithhopecharity ("Politicians aren't born, they're excreted." Marcus Tullius Cicero (106 to 43 BCE))
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To: Responsibility2nd

Jeremy explains why calling first is rude.

https://comicskingdom.com/zits/2024-01-03


33 posted on 09/10/2024 10:36:44 AM PDT by Responsibility2nd (Leaving Abortion up to the States is like Leaving Slavery up to the States.)
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To: DallasBiff

So instead of texting us your opinion, why didnt you just call everybody?


34 posted on 09/10/2024 10:39:29 AM PDT by Hammerhead
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To: DallasBiff

If the communication is important, invest in a call.

If it isn’t important a text is fine; if you have the capability to turn the whole thing over to a robot let it handle the matter and be done with it.


35 posted on 09/10/2024 10:40:17 AM PDT by jeffersondem
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To: DallasBiff

I prefer text in most cases. But it’s somewhat unreliable. I know people who will send a text or leave a voicemail and ASSUME you read or listen to it. I only check voicemail once every week or two.

“Why did you miss that important meeting? I left you a voicemail!”

Ha ha.


36 posted on 09/10/2024 10:41:13 AM PDT by subterfuge (I'm a pure-blood!)
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To: Hammerhead
So instead of texting us your opinion, why didnt you just call everybody?

Well at least I'm not in a car posting, at least with a phone call, I can keep my eyes on the road.

37 posted on 09/10/2024 10:44:11 AM PDT by DallasBiff (Apology not accepted.la is not the sharpest knife in the drawer)
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To: DallasBiff

talk to my kids and email for everyone else. I don’t wanna text


38 posted on 09/10/2024 10:45:16 AM PDT by ronniesgal (have you even tried to mind your own business?)
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To: dfwgator

Our rule #1: “If we don’t recognize the number, we don’t answer. We let it go to voicemail and call back if it’s important. No more Robocalls is pretty good at weeding out the snakes in the phone grass/weeds.”

We have Relatives/friends living in Time zones from Africa, the UK, across America and into the Pacific areas. That places severe time restrictions on live calls. So we text.

Our Mothers, while they were alive and living in the central time zones preferred to call after their dinner and for us to call them at that time. The calls were usually long, and I basically said hello, love you and goodbye after a few minutes.

My wife’s adult siblings like to call us after their dinner or for us to call them at their mid-west time. Which often leads to a late dinner for us. The one exception sibling likes to call us in mid afternoon for him. His calls are usually short 5-10 minutes.

My sibling prefers texts unless there is an emergency.

My wife calls her bible study group and local people to set up meetings.

My bridge group and other small groups use emails to set up
our activity re meeting time or no go.


39 posted on 09/10/2024 10:51:13 AM PDT by Grampa Dave (The most expensive vehicle I drive, is my weekly grocery. cart. )
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To: DallasBiff

The one thing that I’ve learned over the years of having a cell phone is that I need to be in the right mindset to answer the phone. For a long time, if the phone rang and it was someone I knew, I would just answer. Even if I was in the middle of something else or didn’t feel like talking. And then I’d have a bad or rushed conversation. Now, I answer if I can focus on having a conversation and won’t be distracted.

As for texts, I can take them or leave them. They have their uses but I don’t think it should be the primary way to communicate.


40 posted on 09/10/2024 10:55:11 AM PDT by Opinionated Blowhard (When the people find that they can vote themselves money, that will herald the end of the republic.)
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