You’re missing the point.
You don’t have to ‘love Never Trumpers’ or Charles Manson for that matter. Most judgements come from loving and being decent with the people within your circle of spiritual growth... well, unless you’re powerful and your actions damage or lift many. How fair and decent ARE YOU when you think no one is watching? It’ll matter.
I can't speak for the rest of you, but for me...
Jeremiah 17:9 kjv
The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it?