Yeah, a lot of this is not true. I have stopped them from giving my wife antibiotics to which she’s allergic, though.
Oh absolutely!
I swear they do not read the charts. They gave my husband morphine which is clearly listed as a big no-no. To summarize it tends to make him paranoid and combative which is a very bad combination when you are talking about a big guy who is combat trained. Thankfully I was there and spent the night reassuring him that everything was ok and no, the night nurse was not a threat. Had a hallway chat with the doctor the next morning.
It did not happen again.