This testimony from the boy who fathered the child with the teacher appeared in the DailyMail today:
'I struggled to come to terms with my abuse': Boy B's hard-hitting victim impact statement'I was in love with Rebecca and struggled to come to terms with my abuse - I was completely in denial. I subsequently held back and did not fully open up to people. Rebecca was in my head that much, I would argue until I was blue in the face protecting her and would not hear a bad word against her. I felt as so I had betrayed someone I love and had done wrong by giving evidence. I felt a large sense of guilt for a long time. I questioned if I was right to give statements about the woman who was carrying my child, since then I have replayed a lot of things in my head, and spoken to a lot of people, and it has made me realise the full extent of the abuse carried out on me and the tactics that were used to do so.
'I was coerced and controlled, manipulated, sexually abused and mentally abused. it is very upsetting that this has happened to me, and I have had little to no support from any organisations. I am only just finding help through self-referrals and help from a family support worker.
'The months after the abuse happened to me was a very dark time, I felt backed into a corner. I had just lived a double life for 18 months behind my family's back. This had a massive mental toll on me and my family. It tore my family apart, they struggled to come to terms with the fact they sent me to school, where they believed it to be a safe environment, and this happened as a result. I attended school regularly and left with straight As. My parents broke down every day and night trying to get me to speak, I held many things back. I thought I would be better off dealing with things alone, as it is a rare case and not very relatable to others.
'The gender inequality I have faced is absurd. I feel that because of my gender this is seen as a lesser crime. I have been told time after time, that now I am 18, I will have to wait years for support, as I am now an adult. The grooming started at 15 years of age, and I have struggled to find any services which support males of my age with sexual abuse counselling and support. There are a lot for young females and children though. I feel like sometimes these crimes go unnoticed due to men bottling things up, I hope there is an increase in these services in the future.
'I struggle to understand how Rebecca still takes no responsibility for the crimes she committed. I have never been in trouble in my life, and attending court is very intimidating. I seriously struggle with the thought of Rebecca getting away with all these crimes and how this may impact my life in the future. The future I have set for myself has already been greatly impacted.'
Amazing what weeks and months of government struggle sessions can brainwash a kid into saying. This is straight out of North Korea where pilots were signing bizarre statements.
“I have spoken to a lot of people, and it has made me realise the full extent of the abuse carried out on me and the tactics that were used to do so.
‘The gender inequality I have faced is absurd. I feel that because of my gender this is seen as a lesser crime. I have been told time after time, that now I am 18, I will have to wait years for support,
I feel like sometimes these crimes go unnoticed due to men bottling things up,”
Thank you for clarity.
*’I was in love with Rebecca and struggled to come to terms with my abuse - I was completely in denial.*
Get your first piece of ass and you’re in love?
I think that testimony is mostly social worker and lawyer words in his mouth. I think that boy was manipulated. And I think he was harmed. But he could very well be just as harmed by a 17 year old cheerleader with a desire to have the first wedding. I am guessing the boy was not nearly as interested in his baby and his parents, mostly his mother who was interested in bringing up her grandchild. And she is being denied. If the baby is not put up for adoption the mother still has the ability to extract child support from the father after she gets out of jail. The boy and the baby are clearly pawns here.