You are welcome to your opinion. I respectfully disagree.
That’s a good way, imo, to help your kids end up in lower middle-class if they have to bear the full load themselves while more close knit families, like Asians or East Indians do better because families subsidize their progress.
Again, I repeat, my position is dependent upon whether they are earning my help by doing well. They would get no help if they thought it was to be used to not have to work.
Indians and Asians have networks rivaling anything that the ivys had.
I bellieve that earlly independence and responsibility grounds people in ways that provides creativity and flexibility. That is what propels them I to success. And the doctors and business owners and lawyers and oncology specialists and politicians and cpas and international marketing companies owners and successful restaurateurs and regional construction companies owners and
sucessful inventors that I know among many others all do very well financially and in social stature.