How do I know if black lives matter to a person? If the first thing they bring up when asked about it, the two things they bring up are black on black crime and fatherlessness of the black community. If those are off their radar, they are just milking the issue for personal gain - or they are a tool of such.
Black Lives Matter movement are blacks trying to convince themselves cause I don’t give a sht what color you are. Nobody else does either.
That said, a culture that produces sociopaths at an alarming rate is always going to get a side eye from those who value their property and lives.