Women generally will not do this. This isn’t an Asian thing. This is a female thing. Its as true in the US as in an Asian country. This has been the case for years as more women than men graduate from college now.
https://nypost.com/2019/09/25/women-are-struggling-to-find-men-who-make-as-much-money-as-they-do/
Men generally don’t care how much a girl makes. The boss marrying a secretary is practically a trope but it has a basis in truth and there are many real world examples to back it up. What men generally won’t do is marry women older than their early 30s at the very oldest and many won’t accept a woman older than her 20s.
Yes. It’s interesting, women may have children with a man who makes less, but are far less likely to marry them.
Being married to an Asian there’s a saying:
American women look at a man’s buns
European women look at a man’s package
Asian women look at a man’s wallet.
I am a white collar professional, the daughter of two college graduates.
My husband is a blue collar professional who put himself through trade school.
My siblings and friends thought I was dating down. My father wasn’t sure at the beginning but my mother knew my husband since he was a baby and heartily approved. He is honest, hardworking, loyal, and strong.
Thirty three years together, married over 30.
Best choice I ever made.
If I lost my wife I might go with a woman in her 40s.
Then again, I’m in my 60s...