[Sir_Humphrey]

An obituary isn’t the place for this.

It kinda is. Let the world know what a scumbag they were. While I was raised by loving parents I have met too many people over the years who weren't. You just don't "get over it". To give then sympathy just because they died is bullschit.

[silent_jonny]

Write a book, a blog, a social media post--whatever the person feels they need to do.

But leave the obituaries alone. Show respect for ourselves if not for the departed.