In the early 80’s I went out with a young lady who worked at a bank. At sabot our 5th date she informed me that she ran a credit check on me and I came back ok. I didn’t ask her out a sixth time. I was working in an aerospace machined shop as a cnc programmer making around 50k a year at the time. all she had to do was ask.
You made a very reasonable and smart decision.
My background issue was an ongoing dealing with a corrupthovernor, AG, corrupt state judges and Justices. I have the documents proving the corruption.
We’ve been married for over 13 years and have never had a real argument. I attribute that to both being Christians and agreeing on how we were going to conduct our marriage. We have a very peaceful marriage even though we both have some very serious health issues.
Those questions are off limits until you are seriously considering marriage.