That question is important to a woman. They prefer that you are a doctor or a pilot.
That's why black female romance novelists write about a poor/broke black woman almost always hooking up with an attractive, athletic WHITE billionaire. They hate whitey until it becomes a matter of being instantly wealthy.
It’s a fair question to bring up on maybe the fourth date. But not before. Anyway, I’m always ready for such questions. Because I’m both a medical doctor and licensed helicopter pilot. Plus I’m a voting member of the local Federal Reserve Bank. Ladies, please don’t ask for any verification. That would be rude.
Only if they are a gold digger expecting a gravy train.
If you marry a wallet with a man attached, you will never be happy.
Marry the man. If he is smart, hard-working, and faithful, blessings will follow.