It’s a fair question to bring up on maybe the fourth date. But not before. Anyway, I’m always ready for such questions. Because I’m both a medical doctor and licensed helicopter pilot. Plus I’m a voting member of the local Federal Reserve Bank. Ladies, please don’t ask for any verification. That would be rude.
Ladies are superficial. That's just how they are.
The question of finances should be MORE important to men. Women hold 2/3rds of total debt in student loans and credit. If you marry some woman 150k in debt, you are now on the hook. Beware of who you choose as a partner.