That sounds like me. I live 8 to 9 miles from. It is 20 minutes to work and 45 minutes home. I feel dead when I get home. By the way I don’t live in New York.
When I lived in Alexandria, leaving work only one or two minutes early decreased the short commute through the Mixing Bowl and home by 15 minutes
I’m still in NY until I retire. Finger Lakes area...
21 miles to work, 25 minute trip is the norm