South Carolina teacher accused of illicit tryst with teen: 'She ruined our son's life'

Fox News ^ | November 17, 2023 | By Rebecca Rosenberg

[lastchance]

Your points on this matter are excellent. What God commands of us is not given a day off based on how attractive we are.

[metmom]

Good looks are a gift from God. And IMO, for any gift we are given, we are accountable for how we use it.

[lastchance]

I had not realized the woman was married. Maybe someone should suggest her children by given to foster care. She has done more damage to her family than the mother of the young man who expressed legitimate concerns.

There is a very simple rule that too many here fail to grasp. TEACHERS ARE NOT SUPPOSE TO HAVE INTIMATE RELATIONS WITH A STUDENT. This is even the expected norm at the University level.

[thecodont]

Thank you for that post from Malachi.

Here is the account of Joseph fleeing the attempted seduction from Potiphar’s wife: Genesis 39:1-16.

39 Now Joseph had been brought down to Egypt. An Egyptian named Potiphar, an official of Pharaoh and the captain of the guard, purchased him from the Ishmaelites who had brought him there. 2 The Lord was with Joseph. He was successful and lived in the household of his Egyptian master. 3 His master observed that the Lord was with him and that the Lord made everything he was doing successful. 4 So Joseph found favor in his sight and became his personal attendant. Potiphar appointed Joseph overseer of his household and put him in charge of everything he owned. 5 From the time Potiphar appointed him over his household and over all that he owned, the Lord blessed the Egyptian’s household for Joseph’s sake. The blessing of the Lord was on everything that he had, both in his house and in his fields. 6 So Potiphar left everything he had in Joseph’s care; he gave no thought to anything except the food he ate.

Now Joseph was well built and good-looking. 7 Soon after these things, his master’s wife took notice of Joseph and said, “Come to bed with me.” 8 But he refused, saying to his master’s wife, “Look, my master does not give any thought to his household with me here, and everything that he owns he has put into my care. 9 There is no one greater in this household than I am. He has withheld nothing from me except you because you are his wife. So how could I do such a great evil and sin against God?” 10 Even though she continued to speak to Joseph day after day, he did not respond to her invitation to go to bed with her.

11 One day he went into the house to do his work when none of the household servants were there in the house. 12 She grabbed him by his outer garment, saying, “Come to bed with me!” But he left his outer garment in her hand and ran outside.
(NASB)

and

18 Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body.
1 Corinthians 6:18
New King James Version

[lastchance]

Well put.

[metmom]

Excellent passage.

Thanks for posting that.

Proverbs has a lot to say about seductive women.

[In_Iowa_not_from]

40 is middle-aged; 27 is gradschool-aged.

[lastchance]

Yes. Whatever happened to the belief that our bodies are a temple of the Holy Spirit? That is true no matter the outer appearance.

[T.B. Yoits]

The teenage boy is screwed. This is what happens when boys are not taught to be men.

He let a married woman with children seduce him with sex. It will set the template for the rest of his life if he doesn't unlearn it.

He's well on his way to being fully beta-tized. His next relationships are likely to be with even older married women with kids or single mothers... and for what? sex? It's not like she was helping him with his schoolwork.

[HereInTheHeartland]

High school teachers shouldn’t be screwing their students .
If the kids a couple years further ahead and out of school, that’s fine have at it ,

[higgmeister]

**BS, the kid has great memories that will last a lifetime.** Yeah, that he can share with his girlfriend, the fiance, then his wife. Idiot.

I thank God I have only memories of full intimacy with my wife. No comparisons to past experiences, no wife wondering how she really ‘stacks up’ to previous orgasm partners.

So what are you attempting to say here?

My wife of 49 years had twice as many partners as I had before we were married.   She got into a little bit of blue funk a few days after we were married about the number of partners she had and I told her, mox nix.

We made love together the day after our first date.   We were married less than two months after that first date.

If she hadn't trusted me to be who I said I was, then we wouldn't have had a relationship.

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But for full disclosure I remembered her from the playground when I was in the second grade.   She was in my brother's class.   She was one of about five girls in our small rural first through twelfth grade school who were as cute as a button and she grew up to be ravishingly beautiful.   Our Dad's had been in the Ruritan Club together and were both Masons so it was not like we were total strangers.   We just didn't know each other and had not seen each other even in passing in over ten years.

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You sound a little warped to suggest that you would have compared your wife to past partners or your wife would have obsessed over your past partners.   Do you obsess about girls you once knew but didn't have an orgasm with?

You telegraph a projection of longing to know what it would have been like if you had other experiences with strange orgasms.   Why would you think of that if you are satisfied with your sacrifice?

[Getready]

But men have different sensabilities. Who’s gonna protect the kid from a vengeful, angry husband?
Suppose she got pregnant? Ya think she’s gonna let the kid support her, or force the kid to support her? If she gets divorced, who raises the kids? If the kid gets VD, will the disease cause long term health risks?

Just cause orgasmic pleasure is highly cherished, and bragged about, doesn’t mean that there are no serious repurcussions after the brief explosion of ecstasy.

[patriot torch]

The story of Joseph is amazing. He resisted her advances and was remporarily punished. However, Because he remained a Godly man, he was rewarded.

He was a humble servant, and a Godly servant. A type of Christ.

Thank you for sharing that.

For those that have no problem with what this married teacher did by abusing her authority for sinful lusts, I’d like to hear any of you weigh in on the Spiritual aspects of the following...

Proverbs 7
King James Version
7 My son, keep my words, and lay up my commandments with thee.

2 Keep my commandments, and live; and my law as the apple of thine eye.

3 Bind them upon thy fingers, write them upon the table of thine heart.

4 Say unto wisdom, Thou art my sister; and call understanding thy kinswoman:

5 That they may keep thee from the strange woman, from the stranger which flattereth with her words.

6 For at the window of my house I looked through my casement,

7 And beheld among the simple ones, I discerned among the youths, a young man void of understanding,

8 Passing through the street near her corner; and he went the way to her house,

9 In the twilight, in the evening, in the black and dark night:

10 And, behold, there met him a woman with the attire of an harlot, and subtil of heart.

11 (She is loud and stubborn; her feet abide not in her house:

12 Now is she without, now in the streets, and lieth in wait at every corner.)

13 So she caught him, and kissed him, and with an impudent face said unto him,

14 I have peace offerings with me; this day have I payed my vows.

15 Therefore came I forth to meet thee, diligently to seek thy face, and I have found thee.

16 I have decked my bed with coverings of tapestry, with carved works, with fine linen of Egypt.

17 I have perfumed my bed with myrrh, aloes, and cinnamon.

18 Come, let us take our fill of love until the morning: let us solace ourselves with loves.

19 For the goodman is not at home, he is gone a long journey:

20 He hath taken a bag of money with him, and will come home at the day appointed.

21 With her much fair speech she caused him to yield, with the flattering of her lips she forced him.

22 He goeth after her straightway, as an ox goeth to the slaughter, or as a fool to the correction of the stocks;

23 Till a dart strike through his liver; as a bird hasteth to the snare, and knoweth not that it is for his life.

24 Hearken unto me now therefore, O ye children, and attend to the words of my mouth.

25 Let not thine heart decline to her ways, go not astray in her paths.

26 For she hath cast down many wounded: yea, many strong men have been slain by her.

27 Her house is the way to hell, going down to the chambers of death.

[metmom]

You telegraph a projection of longing to know what it would have been like if you had other experiences with strange orgasms.

Actually, by accusing Zuriel of that it is YOU who are projecting.

[Zuriel]

**You telegraph a projection of longing to know what it would have been like if you had other experiences with strange orgasms. Why would you think of that if you are satisfied with your sacrifice?**

I haven’t lived in a bubble. As a teen on up, I heard plenty of men (single and married) ‘compare’ their experiences. Some even grading them on a scale of 1 to 10.

I’m just glad I don’t have previous experiences to dilute, even the slightest bit, what I have with my wife. Especially with a woman that my soul is so tightly knit to.

‘Learning’ together was part of that bonding. (Funny at times too, lol!)

[higgmeister]

Actually, by accusing Zuriel of that it is YOU who are projecting.

Wait, I have the real experience so I don't have to project.   LOL

Good try though.

[Zuriel]

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[Hot Tabasco]

You're a smart person Tabasco - you know better ...

Yes I am. And I'm not falling for your bullshit argument.....

Come on bro, convince me that you never lusted for a female when you were a 17 year old, hormone raging teenager and wouldn't have jumped at the chance to screw some chick older than you, or any chick for that manner........LOL!

Probably fantasized it with callus's on your dominate hand.

I suspect your fake outrage is centered around envy........LOL!

Give it up bro, the cultural revolution eliminated the Puritans long ago........

[Hot Tabasco]

I thank God I have only memories of full intimacy with my wife.

Good for you bro! I'm lucky enough to have fond memories of all favored females in my life........

So who wins this argument? You the Puritan or me, who is just as happy as you?

[patriot torch]

“So who wins this argument? You the Puritan or me, who is just as happy as you?”

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That might be a question best answered when the time comes...

Revelation 20:11-15