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**BS, the kid has great memories that will last a lifetime.** Yeah, that he can share with his girlfriend, the fiance, then his wife. Idiot.

I thank God I have only memories of full intimacy with my wife. No comparisons to past experiences, no wife wondering how she really ‘stacks up’ to previous orgasm partners.

So what are you attempting to say here?

My wife of 49 years had twice as many partners as I had before we were married. She got into a little bit of blue funk a few days after we were married about the number of partners she had and I told her, mox nix.

We made love together the day after our first date. We were married less than two months after that first date.

If she hadn't trusted me to be who I said I was, then we wouldn't have had a relationship.

But for full disclosure I remembered her from the playground when I was in the second grade. She was in my brother's class. She was one of about five girls in our small rural first through twelfth grade school who were as cute as a button and she grew up to be ravishingly beautiful. Our Dad's had been in the Ruritan Club together and were both Masons so it was not like we were total strangers. We just didn't know each other and had not seen each other even in passing in over ten years.

You sound a little warped to suggest that you would have compared your wife to past partners or your wife would have obsessed over your past partners. Do you obsess about girls you once knew but didn't have an orgasm with?

You telegraph a projection of longing to know what it would have been like if you had other experiences with strange orgasms. Why would you think of that if you are satisfied with your sacrifice?

**You telegraph a projection of longing to know what it would have been like if you had other experiences with strange orgasms. Why would you think of that if you are satisfied with your sacrifice?**

I haven’t lived in a bubble. As a teen on up, I heard plenty of men (single and married) ‘compare’ their experiences. Some even grading them on a scale of 1 to 10.

I’m just glad I don’t have previous experiences to dilute, even the slightest bit, what I have with my wife. Especially with a woman that my soul is so tightly knit to.

‘Learning’ together was part of that bonding. (Funny at times too, lol!)