Guys obviously abuse boys *and* girls...of all ages And it’s easy to imagine lesbians abusing girls. But women abusing boys? Teenagers,maybe. But that’s an issue for another discussion. Women abusing young boys? It’s hard for me to imagine that happening.
That is what confirmation bias is about
You don’t see what you can’t imagine unless you can’t avoid it or it is too obvious to ignore.
This is why people fail to notice the signs of impending suicide in a family member or friend.