This. This is it. They have hyperinflated self worth and think they all deserve the top 5-10% of men, the 80-90% of other men are invisible to them.
And for the guys, it does suck decent partners aren’t out there, but its much better than being yoked to a sucky partner.
Ive found that to be true. No relationship is better than a bad one. One advantage of being a man is that living a purpose can bring enough happiness to get by on.