Ive found that to be true. No relationship is better than a bad one. One advantage of being a man is that living a purpose can bring enough happiness to get by on.
Dam right.
Men without purpose really also shouldn’t be considering relationship with women. Too many decide to make their purpose/focus onto the woman, and thats a recipe for disaster. Thats the way a man destroys a relationship.
As a young woman (and even as a child), I lead a solitary existence. Despite being one of 5 siblings, I enjoyed singular pursuits over groups, alone time over the crowd, and fitting in with the pack was irrelevant to me. I was not a rebel without a clue, mind you; I simply found a lot of people my age to be silly and reckless.
I knew I was different and was okay with that.
Had I not met my husband, I would not have married. Like me, he values his space and alone time, likes being self-reliant, and isn’t concerned with fads, gossip, etc. Before we met, I was already planning to move to a different part of the country where I could live comfortably on just one income.
Not a lot of people can handle that level of solitude. They stay stuck in relationships that make them miserable because they can’t handle being alone. They don’t have a core or accomplishments that feed their soul.
I’m like you. My time is too valuable to waste on a bad relationship.
When you find someone who is a good person and gets you, you make sure they enjoy the time they spend with you and build a beautiful life together.
Thirty years later that good man is still by my side.