i do not date single moms because they are hungry for a man to be a father to a child that is not his.
Much like you, I refused to date single FATHERS back in the day. Not because I didn’t want to raise HIS kids, but because I didn’t want to raise ANY kids. (I would’ve been a terrible mother; I always believed that about myself. My nephew disagrees with that - LOL!)
Some single fathers were looking for a woman to raise the kids and help make his life easier. So it goes both ways. Single mothers need financial help; single fathers need help at home.