Feel sorry for them.
Idiocy runs rampant. Quite a few very, very unhappy women out there who chose a life of ‘excitement’ over the love of their family. Men, too. Was once in a nightclub in Norway, ending up at a table with three beautiful young women (truth). One was going on about her new life, with her new boyfriend. She’d left her husband and a two-year old to shack up with the guy and become glass blowers or some such. I let her have it. I figured I had nothing to lose, so told her that the smartest thing she could ever do in her life was to go home (her parents lived in the same town), apologize to her larger family after being taken in by her folks, and then, if he would take her back, apologize to her husband and then spend the rest of her life raising her family and enjoying birthdays, holidays, etc. like a normal person. Silence. Then her two friends jumped in: “THANK YOU. We’ve been telling her the same thing for the last month!” I hope I made a difference. Who knows.