Posted on 05/23/2023 7:06:50 AM PDT by Jan_Sobieski
Shari, I am sorry that things have piled up and are in a loop of PITA BS. I wish there was something more that I could do to help You.
If You are only getting one (1) Death Certificate be sure that You get some good quality copies made. Some entities will accept a copy and others are going to accept ONLY an Original “Copy” which means that they want one with the Dr/Coroner Signature in ink on the paper and that paper may also have a Watermark on/in it. It’s stupid but it’s the way they do it.
I personally think it’s a scam that exists between the Certificate entities and the various companies.
Still Praying for You to have Peace and things to work out for You.
Coming soon!... "BLOW YOUR DOG MONTH"
I am torn between giving it to the SS office and his term life insurance *if* the latter is still actually in effect.
Since he wholesale cut off all other provisions he had made for me, at this point it would not shock me.
I did not really matter all to him obviously and neither did the dogs.
I was little more than a free house and maid for half of my life.
Nothing more than a means to an end.
I am so ashamed to have been this stupid for so long.
Worse than that is the fact that most of the stuff he had was courtesy of my parents “loaning” him money that he never paid back yet that expensive equipment will seem like his “ estate “ when in truth, they paid for a huge portion of it.
Plus I was kicking his business website high in the search ranking due to learning SEO stuff pretty well.
He’d always tell me we would not even have a business if not for me doing well at that.
A friend told me that narcissists seek out loyal trusting people as they never suspect they’re being used and abused.
I’m an idiot.
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1) Start by getting good quality copies of the Certificate. Then give SS what they need. That will help You with other entities by having that in Your favor.
2) Start selling off the equipment now !!!
And keep the money to yourself in cash, not in the bank.
3) You need to STOP with the negativity !!! It’s feeding off of You and NOT HELPING You to progress with Your Life and digging deeper into Your mental hole/pit/attitude. In short, STOP BEATING YOURSELF UP and START MOVING ON !!!
New name for them:
PetDumb....
The most valuable stuff weighs tons and it bolted to the floor, like a 7’ tall a Bridgeport mill with a Sony digital thingy, huge lathe with same, and so forth.
Massive Snap On tool cabinet full of Snap On tools for which I don’t know the value.
A Millermatic 250 welder and gobs of other things that I have no idea what they even are, let alone value of.
All of those also have cabinets full lol of tools and attachments specific to them.
It is beyond my ken and I don’t want a crapload of people stomping through here for an auction.
Check your mail.
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