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My sons deal with this since they are dating ages

And the women are simply horrible grifters and liars or some simply sluts

It seems to work like this

Regardless the sites like match bumble tinder Facebook etc

The pretty women who don’t honestly need dating sites have full inboxes and simply have pick of the litter

Which means super handsome guys and rich guys who can prove their toys win

So those two groups date or hook up easily

Regular folks have to navigate the communication minefield where I’ve seen the women be extremely duplicitous as a rule

But it’s what kids use it’s just how it is unless they have a large friends or work group to mine

And eventually it can work

Older folks say over 35 seems the sincerity behavior goes up with age bigly

The hook up culture we hear about is exaggerated and overhyped

When I went thru this decades ago you could drink at 18 and you socialized at bars from high school on with familiar people which was a big bet

College was great for this too and maybe work

Now it’s dating sites frequently

My advice to young men looking for simply companionship is look for older women seeking same

They are less duplicity and nonsense

SWIM went thru this dating crap a few years ago and when the action was slow they put their fancy digs and horses and dogs etc on the pics and voila they became box full of babes instantly replete with phone numbers and “I am ready to meet in person or go away for the weekend baby right out if the gate”

That and just all this my career versus your job feminist nonsense makes life for young men who earnestly want a mate hard

It’s not just feminist culture it’s the technology too

But it can work

Both my daughters met great men this way their husbands now although one already knew him a little

But they are both beautiful like their mom so there you go

I’m glad I don’t have to deal with the systems today nor the mostly screwed up young female pool

But like I said I think it works better for older folks

If it were me

Church is good especially big ones

And friends

Always be good to your buddies women because they can help you and will if they like you

And be ready for change encounters

Have your game on

I met a girl once in the flight lounge of air Jamaica in 1983 and we had a great 3 year relationship

And there were others

Don’t give up guys

You need a rib!