Divorce is hard on the kids, no doubt.
But sometimes it's even harder for the kids to listen to constant arguing and fighting, or heaven forbid have to witness (or suffer from) physical abuse.
Sometimes divorce is the lesser of two evils.
This.
Nobody knows what’s going on. Maybe he was a horror to live with.
You should read the book by the liberal therapist ho though just that, but after years of treating children of divorced families, she found out it wasn't true.