After looking at her picture, I would need therapy also if I was doing that at 16.
When I was a 14 year old teenage boy, 40 years ago, I had sex for over a year with a 16 year old girl. I can say having sex did not damage me psychologically. But the crazed no sex for teenagers lobby would put her in prison today. My dad exclaimed, “At a boy, just don’t get her pregnant!” IMHO. YMMV.