Stay off the dating apps, they’re a waste of time and money. Ask me how I know.
Work on being the best version of yourself that you can be. Physically. Emotionally. Spiritually. Financially. Get hobbies. Build friendships.
Never try to sell yourself to women because if they’re shopping, they’ll put you back on the shelf if a better deal comes along; become something that they want to invest in.
Yep. I was married before, but it took me until I was 50 to find True Love.
I was just minding my own business, doing my own thing, planning life alone from ‘divorce’ forward, wasn’t even looking when he showed up in my life again after a 20+ year absence. He was a family friend and had heard I was single again. He was widowed. Never looked at him twice as a ‘boyfriend’ in all those years, and he is 100% perfect for me.
It happens. I wouldn’t have believed it, but it happens. :)