They asked if there were any guns. He doesn’t scare people but he is a blowhard.
Okay. If he is Service Connected disabled, then the VA will find room for him somewhere. Note he may be disabled but not service connected. That’s a different issue entirely.
Read the VA websites for nursing home arrangements. There are many, and each state has an arrangement for veterans. Even if non service connected disabled, but odds are lower in that instance. So the surfing. They have many vids.
There are people who hate VA and people who love it. I have personally never had anything but good experiences with VA, but you do have to do your homework and know the system. If you don’t know the system BE AWARE OF THAT. They have patient advocates to lead you through the process.