I 100% understand especially at age 65. What concerns me is the disintegration of the "family." We've removed God and now since sex is freely accessible, why bother with marriage? For young people, if you are interested in marriage (from a man's perspective) do you want to marry a woman who has slept with every one she went out with?
Yes, that isn't a sexist comment, the male/female dynamic is real whether the so called experts want you to believe it or not.
why bother with marriage?
Getting married in June, we are a great match after 3 years of dating.