Quite a bit of research shows about as many men are abused as women.
Men are much more reluctant to admit it.
Men tend to use the bodies to abuse women.
Women tend to use implements to abuse men.
Wrong, women tend to use ‘other men’ !
The ‘damsel in distress’ ploy is their most vicious tool.
Pretty common nowadays. When claim they have been abused for so long and its her time. And they trample all over their husbands, and take advantage of them. Take off on their own vacations, demand you pay for it, they claim they need “girl time”. Buy me a new car, new house, and then they don’t include you in outings, and belittle you in front of your friends. I have watched this happen with 3 couples we have known over the years. What happened? Well, the women have bought into the guise that they are “victims” and men are pigs. Two of the couples are now looming towards divorce. And the women blame it all on their husbands who have been faithful and hard working the entire time. They say “Its time for me to find out what I want in life” another excuse for “they want to get laid by a younger man and have their husbands pay for it
As you point out, while men may be physically stronger than women (on average ... I would not want to take on a ghettopotimus), women are much more likely to use weapons, or surrogates ( calling police and making false accusations to try to ruin the man’s life)
Agree with you 100%.
I encourage everyone to spend as much time as possible watching Dr Ramani. explain all aspects of Narcissism on YouTube.
Teach your kids.
Narcissists are everywhere and pure evil. Men are especially susceptible. Women narcissists throw their bodies at them replete with all the ego stroking necessary to set the trap. Then they get you to open up and use it all to blackmail you with your reputation.
For starters.
Then they just as easily align their flying monkeys against you. This is when it gets physically dangerous for you.
…and then you realize too late the kids were just necessary inconveniences to keep you paying for everything. She doesn’t love them and has been working behind the seems to separate them from you because of the pain she wants to inflict for the wonderful way it makes her feel.
This is happening everywhere and until Dr Ramani jumped on it, it had no name.
And all you wanted was a happy marriage and a nice family.